Not Rocket Science I guess but I have found out recently that the higher the HB is, the more likely you get blown out. I aint talking about approaching, number/kiss closes but after going on dates. Normally in the past, when I went on a date with HB6/7, I would have converted dates to f-close by the end of the night or at least my conversion rate would be in the 75%. It would involved initial holding hands, kissing, then back to mine.

BUT I have been on 4 dates with proper HB8/9/10 the last two weeks and not a single f-close (bitch!!). I have deleted the numbers of two of the girls cos not got a a reply after my a text. One was a stunning model from Liverpool. Still texting and talking to the other two and hopefully arranging a second date. But I find myself trying harder to get them to bed. Totally out of my comfort zone now and this is good for me...! We will see.

I wouldn't say HB9's and 10's are any harder you just have to accept a different set of beliefs. I had a lot of success converting FB10'S to numbers, but I agree its very hard, so I see where you're coming from.

Once you understand her beliefs its just a case of adjusting your mindset to the opposite of what she gets time and time again.

She thinks she's a hot girl 9 times out of 10 she's also massively insecure, use this.

You're the next guy who puts her on a pedastal, thats an easy one.

You want validation, approval and sex from her. Fuck with her programming and don't give her it (intially)

You have no chance with me I'm too hot for you, flip that bad boy around on her

and finally you can entertain me and try, if you like, no bitch you are going to entertain me.

Good luck man

I poked and got chatting to a lapdancer on FB yesterday, within 2 messages she had given me her number (i didnt even ask for it)
so we swap 2 txts and i just think--cant be arsed, so i ring her.
all i get is ATTITUDE for 20 minutes on the phone-- total personality failure!

she goes

HB: do you know how many guys message me on FB and say oh your really gorgeous, can i take you out for a drink, and then back to mine to watch a dvd -- they all just want to fuck me.

Me: ok, well i would ahve asked you out for a drink but youve just blown me out the water.
ok im off now ciao

she txts me after saying 'im interested'

i just tell her shes got a bad attitude and i wont put up with it.

THE END

ive realised - why am i even slightly interested in being around somone with a personality/attitude like that-- id seriously rather spend a month wanking alone looking at pictures of animals than being fake and pushing her for a fuck

Interesting post.. love how she's interested just cos you weren't chodey!

Seems like you say this from the point of view with abundance..

But what about someone who is not getting laid much.. the girls personality ain't guna mean shit to them, if she's a hot lapdancer, then most guys wana fuck her..

I'm at a point in my life where I wana stay single, so to be honest, I wana fuck the girl not marry her so she can be a bitch all day long!

I don't know really know the point of this post now..

I'd rather have a HB7 with a grea personality than a HB9 with a foul one.

I'm like that can't be arsed with it. one of my biggest breakthroughs was to not care.

Like in poker or in a confrontation the illusion is that you can bluff in reality there's no bluffs just plays.

to live you have to be willing to die.

this is all crap...its true, but not the reason he isnt gettin a date 2, if she has fun... shell do it again.

with the exception of 2 (which wer both fair reasons) i have not gone on a date & not fucked them or had the choice to fuck them for....

id say 5 years.... its all about making them laf & making them comfortable.. That is it. the reason legend i think the HB ++ is coz the fact u look good isnt as important to them as gettin hot guys is normal....

but the less hot girls REALLY want u. so wat u say means shit to them.

i tease the life out of girls like its a school yard... then when i almost over step the mark, smile, cuddle them and say IM ONLY JOOOOKINN like im speakin to a baby.

this means not only is there banter, im cuddlin them makin them feel chilled,
plus if she gives me grief back she is a keeper.

banter is THE most important ignition for chemistry.

i was thinkin this but legend looks WELL so hb7s are more inclined to lust after him coz they dont get the opportunity to fuck guys like that as often...

women still lust after men

in what respect? you sayin there is no way that im right?

it means i was thinking that at first, but then i realised legend has a SICK body, so if he is getting women who are 7's into bad str8 away, they may be fuckin him not coz they had fun, but coz they think I JUST WANNA FUCK HIM.

where as other girls who are 9's & 10's are probably already fuckin sumone uber hot, so the are not in awe...

IF.. this is the case he needs to address it