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Hey guys

Out on my 2nd date with "Jess" tomorrow :)
I've relaxed a load and started to really be myself and she's still really keen....and already she's organising date number 3 :D

The thing I had a question about is; In so many places it tell you not to supplicate- I'm going to the cinema- Do i buy her ticket. Usually i wouldn't hesitate as I see it only as good maners. Do I or Don't I buy her ticket?

Cheers
Bags

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Originally Posted by Bags (Post 47049)

Do i buy her ticket. Usually i wouldn't hesitate as I see it only as good maners. Do I or Don't I buy her ticket?

Cheers
Bags

I'm sure your mum would be proud of such a nice boy.

Unless she does something to deserve like sucking you off on the way there (even that should be a treat for her) just don't. You may think your being nice but no one likes feeling obliged to reciprocate.

why don't you tell her you will pay for the tickets on the understanding of a blowjob

For real? So no Cinema ticket this time lol

Were heading out for cocktails after the film, what if I bought her ticket but told her she can get me a drink afterwards?

Wicked, yeh that was my plan until i saw 'rood's post ha ha but yeh i'll buy the ticket, I'm deff getting oneitis :S

Cheers
Bags

Just as your paying, look at her do a sly little wink and tell her she can earn this properly later ;)

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 47069)

This is actually a little test I do when I'm on a date. I always buy the first drinks, I then wait until we have finished them to see how she reacts.

If she goes to get the next ones, then it has become "rounds" and I think she is cool. If however, we are sat there as she waits for me to get more. She can get fucked, I'm not gonna spend time knocking about with no princess.

In terms of a meal, I always offer to pay. I of course am gauging her response here (i refuse to let her pay). I don't mind if she does not take notice because it can be made up shortly after. You see after the meal we go to a bar, I am pretty much 100% expecting the chick to get the drinks in at this point. If she dosent, another princess - fuck off.

I dont wait i just direct them.. cinema example i`ll pay for the ticket and then tell her to buy the food and choose what i want

drinks in a bar i`ll buy the first drinks then when mines empty even if she hasnt finished her i`ll tell her to go buy some drinks

right or wrong i dont care im the FUCKING DADDY!

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 47091)

Yes. I am the same mate.

But on a first date, I wanna test the chick to see what's she's really like. It's just that first time the "payment" event pops up. I watch her reaction. There is allot of dickhead broads out there who have been brainwashed by Disney. You know what I mean?

I forgot to say OP, generally, the cinema is the worst fucking date venue there is. That's for Wives And Girlfriends to keep them happy and shut them the fuck up for two hours. Anyway, I'm off to bed.

Very true. You can't talk to the girl in the cinema, and if its busy, no chances of a blowjob either!

Instead, get her to watch a downloaded movie at your house

Good relationships and dates that you want to go that way are about making memories together.

Ice Skating-- who cares if you are both crap you get really touchy feely holding each other up and have a good laugh together.

As said Cinema is a crapish date, well first date--same with going shopping unless youve already exchanged horny txts and talked about fucking her in the changing rooms (now thats a memory!)
Do somthing wacky with her, the Zoo, down a mine, take her to a maze, a popular dogging location ..lol
When i look back at the amazing things me and my ex did together it was all about the memories we had-the shared memories doing fantastic things-- talking to lots of single girls about this topic they all agree its about making memorable memories and thats what they miss being single not having somone to share them with.

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Ice Skating-- who cares if you are both crap you get really touchy feely holding each other up and have a good laugh together.

Couldn't agree more, for early dates it's one of the best possible locations. It's informal and fun, the environment is open with very few rules on the interaction, unlike dinner or being trapped next to someone for 2 hours in near silence. It also has the added benefit of being an environment where touching and hand holding is absolutely appropriate and shouldn't stop any new person from doing.