One thing i wanna try to remember,

is just coz u have someones attention, doesnt mean u can lag off!

i met this girl a while back, she is sound, smart clean

belter tits and a thin physique

Now....

She used to come round quite often, last time she came round fucked her and as im lookin at her she has grown a belly,

and its all fat on her sides & belly! it made me wanna vomit & i thought at that moment... invites revoked.

all she kept sayin was

"im likin how my tits have gone bigger, Boy i dont wanna lose these" a fuckin lame excuse to stay fat.

like i was gonna buy that shit. needless to say she hasnt been back, and now when she talks sex talk with me it makes me wanna vom, wen she pops up on facebook i think FUCK OFF! the stuff i buzzed off now annoys me.

i hate fat lazy people... she is now in that category.


so remember, just coz someone now likes u, doesnt mean they cant get turned off by u if you start slackin.

that goes right throo to marriage, and we would do well to keep reminding ourselves & eachother of that fact,

what you used to be only holds out for so long.! its called a has-been

Damn those beer goggles!

yes and no

I was only checking this girl out last night engaged to her guy, she was smoking hot, really stood out--he was average looking and chubby
I always think what you doin fkin that every night when the supercar model is over here giving you the eyes.
lots of nice girls end up with guys who look like shit under neath their clothes.

I think this changes in situations where clothes come off...like on holiday round the pool
fit bird is lookin smoking in her bikini with her chubby boyfriend lying next to her-- she suddenly becomes akward as her social proof takes a big fat nose dive with him on show.
espcially when there are awesome physical specimens like me around.

This is a futile thought. There could be so many more impressive reasons why she's with this fella. If anything, perhaps you should be inspired!

Maybe you should be grateful it's him and not you who's tying themselves down to such a shallow girl then.

For women, status is much more about lifestyle than how "cut" her boyfriend is. The social dynamics follow a pretty consistent pattern - when a man upgrades his lifestyle in some significant way (maybe his business takes off ) he usually upgrades his girl. Obviously this upgrade will generally be at the expense of some other guy who has a less desirable lifestyle.

At best your cut body might get you a sneaky shag behind chubbys back. If your going to steal her away your going to have to offer a lot more than that.

Studies in evolutionary psychology show that women go for good physical genetics for short term cheating but favour good stable providers for LTRs. This is because subconsciously they want to get impregnated by the cut guy but have the child raised by mr stable chubby.

Isn't that the point of PU? So that it doesn't matter what you're packing under your shirt, its about realizing your value and potential as a person and boyfriend?

NO, and i hate this point,

the whole point of pua is not that u can get girls without goin the gym, it means u are better at socialising...

most people wont even let u into a convo with them if ur ugly or more importantly fat

people are offended by fat people in general

It always matters along with many other things that matter

Slow down lads. Let's not have another one of these ugly people can't pull debates. It'll get you nowhere fast.

guys, you're preaching to the converted! I agree thoroughly that looks play a part, and I exercise like it's my second religion - I'm not the best-looking guy but I'm toned and well-groomed which is enough.

However through PU I have become better at socializing which is the point that was letting me down.

Another thought about the post and more of a personal inner-thing I don't exercise and take care of myself for girls, I do it for me - like you said fat people generally offend and it shows determination, pride and self-control if you take care of yourself