Only want what i carnt have
 

When sarging in pub/clubs i always find myself necking (snogging) around 4-5 girls everytime, but hardly ever number closing and i usually fuck off after 5-10mins, even when i do number close i hardly ever bother phoning them. I find that when i know i can have something i no longer want it.

For example i was with a girl the other week, both of us getting hot kissing touching etc, she baught me a drink (always i try to get them to buy me a drink) i told her i wanted to go to toliet (she even waited for me outside the toliet, like the chodes do). Then i was trying to get rid of her the rest of the night! she wasnt bad probs a 7 or 8 and i should have nobbed her, but i think i perceived her as a chodey girl as it was all to easy, i think i just went up to her and said something like "your cute arnt you" and then put my face to hers and said "kiss me then, before i leave".
I WANT GIRLS TO ANSWER ME BAK AND CHALLENGE ME!! when they dont i get bored so easy!!! Anyway i was wondering if you guys have the same problem or do u chase up every girl you kiss to get sex?? I know that most guys get bored after the sex, i get bored from the moment i know i could have sex with them!!!


AJay

Sounds like evasive behaviour being reframed as something that nurses the ego.

PS

Thanks dude, but any tips on how to fight these frigin demons??? have you ever gone through a stage like this?

AJay

You could try, giving yourself a target.

Like, right, I'm guna bang 20 8+ girls in two weeks.

Just an idea :)

just go for girl who u actually want, its clear ur just hittin on girls who arent that fit,

coz otherwise u would be pushing to fuck them.

up ur average.


also this : why? power thing? and any decent girl would have enuf options to reply, "go fuck yourself" wer u to demand a drink

clear indicator of the type of girl ur playin the game with

Phillip if you get woman to buy you drink it doesnt neccessarily mean they arent attractive, all it means is that they percieve you as very high value and like you.

AJay

no if a woman offers to buy u a drink she is as you described,

if you make her buy you one, she is an idiot

Yes, I was the lord king almighty of self sabotage, I had it down to a fine art of stupidity...still do sometimes! I once asked a shrink how I can use psychology to influence behaviour, he said you can't, you have to use behaviour to influence psychology. I didn't want to hear it at the time, but he was right. You have to ignore whatever is driving you to evade, and escalate regardless...take "right action" as the buddhists say.

PS

you two - this thread sounds like a storm in a teacup

AJay, remove the Newport and Cardiff easy ho's from your portfolio and look to chicks who are: hotter, sexier and more elusive. This will increase your interest levels.

Game hot girls, interesting girls, girls that make you think about fucking them just by setting eyes on them...

If, having got to the hands-on stage of kissing such a girl, you are not itching to escalate it to sex then you are a big gay chicken -- busy squawking on the forum rather than sexing your women

Good luck, just try making that move (back to your place)...

• "R U hungry? I have pizza back at mine" [(C) Covert Operation] or
• "I'm going to fuck you tonight" [(C) Phil]
• "This club is dull, let's leave", and take her hand, lead her to cloackroom then out the club
• or whatever the hell you wanna say

Rebus

Thanks Rebus you sexy sexy man


AJay