Are you a woman!
 

After seeing alot of threads recently.

long winded threads about how a girl isnt being that interested, or being really mean to you

"and she isnt returning my calls, she doesnt say she likes me like she used to, she doesnt make an effort..."

REMIND YOU OF ANYTHIN??? ye u sound like women. women are attracted to men

so when women are busy dealing with being women.... and highly emotionaly volatile,

ur expecting them to deal with you acting like a woman aswell??

GET A FUCKIN GRIP! if she isnt interested, let it the fuck go!!!! no amount of cryin, textin, pleadin or GAMEIN is gonna work.....

it isnt a movie!! women say 'OH THE MEN IN THE MOVIES LOOK HOW MUCH HE WANTS HER!! OMG HE IS AMAZING WHY DOESNT ANYONE WANT ME LIKE THA!!! they do.... you just arent interested in them....

PEOPLE ARE LIKE CATS

IF SOMETHING IS DANGLING.... U WANNA PLAY WITH IT!!!!

if its lyin on the floor sayin come get me... u couldnt give a shit!

if you currently have onitis, or girl problems.... just delete her number.... change yours and if she finds u... she is interested

if she doesnt! u saved urself being made an idiot of!....

On the strength of that i just deleted some chick off my phone
wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooo

I think ideally this is where i want to be. nice thread.

great post but we've all done it even you if I could be arsed to find the post.

I like this bit the most:

GET A FUCKIN GRIP! if she isnt interested, let it the fuck go!!!! no amount of cryin, textin, pleadin or GAMEIN is gonna work.....

closely followed by this:

if you currently have onitis, or girl problems.... just delete her number.... change yours and if she finds u... she is interested

The way of the Legend:

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/field-repo...t-results.html

Reminds me of between 3:20 and 4:30 on this clip, from none other than the Faceman himself, talking about the feminization of media.



PS

Phil we need a 'rule book' somthing to refer back to when we are being chodes
forget the picking the girl up bit- it seems to be the date1/2/3/4/5/6 people are having problems with.

I went on a date last sunday she hadnt txt me for 2 days earlier and i just thought i cant be arsed, she txt me on the day and said what time we meeting
i said ' i assumed you wernt assed so wasnt going to'
she said she was looking forward to meeting me

anyway i backed up and met her-- i didnt flirt with her at all i wasnt in the mood and couldnt be assed--she kinoed me to death and to be honest i fancied her.
so kissed her and went to hers, didnt try to fuck her because i wasnt arsed.

anyway i feel like im doing all the chasing now txting her then she`ll reply 12 hours later

we are supposed to be meeting on thursday night but ive just deleted her number because i cant be arsed-- i want my ego stroked and to be worshipped!

but u feel like she is gonna flake!!!

put it this way!!! if u dont bother callin or textin on thursday! she will like u more.

i often wonder this! if im meant to be goin out with a girl and she just doesnt get in touch!! i think... cheeky bitch

but if she was to just pretend like it never happened, not only would i be dyin to go out with her again, i would treat her with more respect !!

cant figure it out!! and its gonna be the same the other way round...

i dont really wanna do it tho coz i dont like flakin i tend to be true to my word... i just dont flake out! not without ample warnin, in that case i always flake lol

She will either flake but historically what usually happens is after the date i will get the 'theres no spark/chemistry' whatever bullshit its a well trod road and i can see it coming a mile away

But do you txt her and get in touch before you meet or do you just delete her?

also
You txt a girl in the morning and she maybe replies a few hours later
next day you think to yourself 'be nice if she made the effort first' so you dont txt her and dont hear from her until the next day when you txt her again.
WHATS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?

I always think it's a shit test to see if you send another text or get pissed off. I usually just act like nothing happened. If she brings it up like "sorry I didn't get back to you sooner" I'll say something like don't worry about it I was doing something else and totally forgot about it.

my rule, always make my text fun enuf that they wana carry on the texts.

if there text is interestin text back, if not... put my phone down, come back to it when im less busy!

i dont htink its a shit test, i dont think people intentionally ignore texts... people just get side tracked..

and if they like u enuf, u will be gettin a text back as soon as they get chance!

maybe they're just thinking of what to text back.

you're definitely right about the fun message thing I think of that now when I text.

I still think sometimes it might be a shit test though but I do over think a lot and it's the belief it's not a shit test that makes you successful.

I know a lot of peeps who will turn any little thing into a reason that they're not interested.

you do have a way of cutting thro the bullshit and telling it like it is, cheers

anyone (me included) behaving like a pussy, stop it! she already has a pussy and she don't need another one clinging on

i know this because i fell into the trap once, and i was "THE MAN" at playin games, and none of it worked, and it was completely down to my frame of mind! nothin else.. granted she wasnt a gil i met, it was my ltr Gf, ( onitis over a girl i hardly know doesnt register with me, i cant grasp it)

i now wish id been shook and given the above advice... but then again, id never have learned the hard way! and the hard way is the biggest shake u can get

same.

the only thing I do get is this I really wanna fuck that bird feeling but I can let it go.

best cure I think isn't go sarge like others say, but rather find joy in other things. If you can't have fun without a bird that's the problem not the lack of bird.

Some people do indeed intentionally ignore texts. Worrying about whether you're being intentionally ignored or not is a great way to kill your mood and make yourself insecure though. Assume the positive side of things.

Fuck you phil, you cunt! I take this as a personal attack on me!

Lol, but seriously, I get the point - I been actin like a pussy bout my girl lately. Time for change!

I'm out sargin three nights on the trot startin with tonight - time to man up and fuck some bitches.

Cheers for the harsh-but-true post dude.

Much love,

Craigus

I hate texting. Really hate the fact that it gives people a chance to 'construct' a reply. A conversation should flow! It should come naturally!

And all this bollocks about waiting a few minutes before replying and what-not - these are just childish games! If I am not busy and can reply there and then, then I will reply there and then! Can you imagine playing these games while having a proper conversation with someone? You would both be standing there like twats not saying a word for ages, then finally reply with a response 160 characters or less!

I'm on a rant now: I think the reason people are becoming social retards is because of the likes of texting and so-called 'social' networking sites (I think they should be renamed anti-social networks). Many times, after a quick fire texting session with a girl, I'll figure it's easier to just call her and have a proper conversation. But everytime, it will just go to VM, and then I'll get a text ten minutes later sayin "oh sorry i missed your call - i left my phone upstairs, blah blah blah". BUT YOU MUST HAVE JUST HAD IT IN YOUR HAND!

People seem to like to hide behind technology nowadays.

I dread to think what dating etc. will be like for my future children.

Much love,

Craigus

ye i get u... and ur probably right... it is childish, it doesnt mean by ignoring how childish it is you get the result u want.

people are generally (especially women) childish & selfish.

women like that period where they worry wen ur gonna text back, the emotion of thinking they could be rejected, THEY FUCKIN LOVE IT!!!

look at ur first post mate, then look at ur last, and see if there is maybe a correlation between the 2

and then refer to the cougar thread, just tryin to help u out here mate but i have girls who WANT ME BAD, and i certainly dont get what u have on this thread!!

u need to be unavailable 70 % of the time or more

Christ alive. People are scarred of interactions with strangers. Flirting behind their monitors alongside a diluted sexual directness via their constructed texts. How can that be satisfying?

Phil i need to foster this state, this is my next level of training

My fails......
Fail1: on the date - have no fear in making moves on somone and used to always go for the fuck
analysis: I am giving the dangleing thing straight to the cat who therfore loases interest

Fail2: after the date with txts - i tend to txt back straight away, i tend to continue the fact that i like them and cant wait to see them again
analysis: again i am no challenge there is no doubt in her mind that she has me


How do i fix this?

1st date, cut it short, by 30 mins...

look i need to be up tomorow, shall we continue this another time

dont text for 2 days after... give them space


when u text make sure its somethin that makes them smile,(funny) if a text makes a girl smile u have her

dont make arangements to see them for at least a few days

if they ask you out say, ye id like that, ill let u know when im free.

never give surity, never make fixed times on their say so, only yours....

i used to be so good at these games, i stoped them recently! coz its hard work.... but summer is here now so lets get it started.

u can come to liverpool soon anyways