Addicted to Online Shagging/Meets
 

Ok so i joined this site about 4 months ago and i feel like ive learned a lot.
I already knew plenty that i had picked up from pure experience.

Over the past 4 months i have literally thrown myself obsessively into Online Dating --to the extent i have gone off on a tangent to what i should really be doing which is Sarging in the real world out of my comfort zone

This Month I have had sex with 12 completely new girls ranging from an Ex Pornstar to a chubby 45 year old woman that i shot my load and thought -what the fuck are you playing at.
I spend loads of time at work online sarging on Plentyoffish.
last night I went out to a birds house (i then fucked) and afterwards checked my phone and i had 8 txt messages off different girls

I have Abundance, i dont give a shit about any interaction, -- ive got all i should ever have got from online shit- i need to get out into the real world and out of my comfort zone

anyone else here get obsessed?

you're two days early, refl3x

cool, so I can cut out reading shite loads of online game books and filler crap etc, tell me what do you say to make this happen?

I've used dating sites in the past scatter gunning a whole range of messages getting little response and even those go dead. Only had one meet and it wasn't anything I did but more the fact she was in my town for one night on work.

what online dating sites are you using?

POF
Zoosk
Ok Cupid
Eharmony
Fitness Singles
have used Match in the past

are there any u dont need to sign up to before u can see profiles? I only want to look at it, I dont actually want to online date. I read Fitness Singles and was like 'not fit enough, next' heh

Search for cute girls, guys and sexy local singles near you!

This one lets u look at profiles. Shockingly found a 21yrold girl in wales who was really fit just now, have to assume she shits into a bag or blinks alot or something. How much gaming does it take to fuck these? are they all single and up for it or do you have to take them on expensive repeat dates etc?

I don't know a single model that hasn't got a pof profile, met hundreds over the years.

Shouldn't just assume it's the arena of people that can't get others in the clubs, most of them treat it just like an fb account except for meeting people they don't know opposed to do know.

It all depends what your after, if you want to bang a load of girls then fair play. If you want to develop your self don't take the easy fanny.

Thats the point of my post-- ive sidetracked my self development

funny, before the game u lot would have settled for shagging anythin that moved if u wer getting to bang 12 girls a month.

now ur all PAU ur on a higher plane so sex isnt important now as your skill set.


not that its an issue, infact if u really mean it i respect it... i just wonder how many of u are scared to try somethin new? and are once again makin excuses

think I'v said this before but surely its like going on a date with a set you havent fully chosen. The first time u meet them its 'on a date.' Atleast if u get a date from a cold approach you have vetted the girl IRL and concluded u both feel attraction. Therefore I have to assume that every1 on the website is statistically more up for it or this would just be a drain on time and moeny.

Swinging and Sex sites are often very different to the ones i listed which are dating/social sites.
The vast majority of people on dating sites are pretty normal.

I did meet a girl from a swinging site once though and had her squirt all over the back seat of my BMW...lol also another one who was into Cuckholding (bascially means she is married and her husband allows her to go fuck as long as she videos it)
she was walking up my stairs and i was fingering her hard from behind and she was squirting all over the place on the way up to my room...

Lol mate that's just filthy - but whaever floats your boat.

Personally I couldn't be bothered with the travel costs/time needed to fuck total randomers - masturbation serves the exact same purpose.

Ha!

Obvious lies are obvious

Parents work in the industry. Mum owns a makeup school and dad's a professional photographer.

Well bully for them.

I've met and known well 3 genuine models in my time, and slept with 1 of them. I can verify that none of them had POF profiles - they just weren't those sorts of people, neither were their model friends by all accounts. Now, it's possible that I just happened to meet the exceptions to your claim - but that's a heck of a long shot.

95% of the girls on POF are utter mingers

I had a look on a free one (I'm a cheapskate) weren't that many birds only about 2 shagable one's that didn't look mental.

I say If you're in a major city (i live in a small town yes half are inbreeds) and you can get a lot of poon from then why not.

There's no point making life more difficult. I can hop all the way to work in the morning but I'm not going to.

The only reason I'd go out sarging is it can be fun a bit like a game ;)

Good misquote - a high-school level comeback if ever I saw one.

With dating sites I've noticed that the lower the "barrier to entry" the lower the quality of women and the more competition there is for the decent ones i.e. on the sites where everyone has to pay to communicate the quality is higher (and competition lower). I've found match and dating direct to be much better than the likes of POF and badoo. Basically on any site where its free for full membership for men is a complete waste of time as your competing for the attention of the few decent birds with a million time wasters.

ha! i lold

Refl3x - What do you write to girls and what do you say in your profile?

Well to be fair i say some really boring Chodey stuff just because im that bored of sending stuff and i really cant give a poo
Online is massively about what pictures youve got up and how you look-- its all ultra facevalue

Nice birds will often not even read your message and just delete it if they dont like the thumbnail of your picture!

If youve got some good pictures up then you are 80% through the front door
Mine arent that great but they show that i am attractive, have a fucking ace body, have dogs and ive got a couple up of my ukrainian Ex who is crazy beutiful ala social proofing.

to be honest the competition online is RIDICULOUS -- the ex porn model got 40 messages a day and i saw her in the flesh and thought you aint all that, plus she was mediocure in bed -- i was beyond her level in every way.

Just see online as light releif when masturbating and concentrate out in the real world.

Im knocking it on the head now after i mowed a couple of African Beuties im dabbling with at the moment, banned and out sarging instead.

It is well documented in the early days of the forum that I used mainly online (Facebook) to meet girls for a good old shag. And I have very good success with it too. But I have changed that since I read Natural Flawless and Blueprint Decoded. I find that meeting girls in real life in a social environment, the "chase", the dates and the f-close are a million times more rewarding and the sex are a million times more satisfying.

Yep, time to go out sarging bruv...!

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obvious need for pics is obvious. come on brah this is teh internweb

Shush and read the thread properly!
the point was, not that you must have pics (you must) but that if some chick is glancing at your profile and somtimes not even that just the thumbnail of your pic next to your message-- you have to be attractive or appeal to her in some major way visually. more so than having an ace profile full of witty banter