My gym = Chump city...How to capitalise?

[RKi]

As title says, my gym is absolutely full of chumps and i barely see any AMOGs in there at all. Its a gold mine tbh.

However, how should i open girls? At the moment im listening to my ipod 100% of the time im in the gym. Im guessing i should drop it completely?

Some pretty hot girls are also sometimes using the machine next to me / close to me when others are available..you reckon some possibly want to be opened?

Personally i reckon situational openers could be ideal here combined with light negging etc..tell me if im horribly wrong obv as im new to this.

FWIW theres a hot brunette who works at the gym on wed/thurs. I don't know how to use the scales (lol) so ill try to open her with that this week. Does anyone have any recommendations for openers there? Im thinking "can you help a tired old man, by showing him how to use the scales?" Whilst smiling / laughing etc to lighten the mood a bit. I know for a fact shes a year younger than me so does this display DHV (being older) or make me look like an old fool?

FWIW i dont know if this sounds arrogant but i think im probably better looking than 90% of the men in there, it really is chump city and i cant let this golden situation pass me by IMO. A month ago i would have..not now.

[Phil]

on this note!!! the fact ur in the gym is sound, but for anyone thinkin of goin the gym, not to work out, but to pick up

NOTE:

UBER HOT WOMEN WHO WORKOUT 7 DAYS DO NOT GO THE GYM TO LOOK LIKE THEY DO ONLY DO BANG A FATTY!!! THEY FUCK OTHER WELL DEFINED PEOPLE!!! THIS I KNOW AS I KNOW ALOT OF GYM READY GIRLS!!!

IF U WANT THEM, IT TAKES WORK!! IF U WANNA FUCK UBER FIT GYM FREAK GIRLS WITHOUT LOOKIN GOOD,

U GOTTA HAVE

SKILLLLLLLLLLLLZZZZZZZZ!!!!

[PostScript]

Not convinced mate, the gym is a functional place where people go to get lost in their thoughts and focus on their workout, they value that personal time. Girls will be dishevelled and in tight gear, so likely insecure about themselves. Plus if things go less than smoothly, you might ruin the vibe int he place for yourself in the future, and shit in your own bed, as it were. On the other hand, that could all be bollocks. One thing that is definitely bollocks though is the age thing, no issue at all good or bad, one year is irrelevant.

[RKi]

Aight ty ty.

[Phil]

Originally Posted by PostScript

N Girls will be dishevelled and in tight gear, so likely insecure about themselves.

trust me, the girls im lookin on fuckin are NOT insecure about their looks

[RKi]

ok, ty for the advice guys. I think reading your posts you make some excellent points. Especially the "dont shit in your own back yard" advice.

TBH right now i really enjoy going to the gym as it gets me out of the house and its my own thing. It'd suck if i didnt have it.

[Refl3x]

Having been into bodybuilding quite seriously (obsessively) in the past, I used to fkin hate anyone coming talking to me while i was training - man, woman whatever.

Loads of reasons why some girls wont want you approaching them in the gym.
Its their time to switch off and vanish into their own little world
They are serious about what they are doing, have targets to hit
They get chatted up all the time - this is her private time

Just use your common sense as to if and when to talk to somone.

While they are actually training, i would just Use situationonal things that are not geared to provoking a conversation
once you have bred some familiarity with her.
build on it-- when shes finished training and you bump into her-- fire up proper conversations then.

[legend]

I think the guys have commented what I would have said. Dont go to the gym to pick up women. You go there to sweat. My ex used to hate it when men stared at her whilst she was exercising and seweating. And she could differentiate the guys who were genuine i.e. needing help with the machines, advice etc and the chodes who were hitting on her, who pretended to exercise but with their eyes fixed on her or just loitering around in the same area waiting for the opportune time to talk to her.

If your gym has a spa facilities i.e. steam room, sauna, jacuzzi then you can use that instead. I met an ex f-buddy in the steam room. No opener, just a friendly normal conversation. I didnt even ask her number the first time cos we were in the steam room. Got chatting with her over a few weeks, building comfort, attraction and the rest was history. Towards the end, she knew I didnt want anything serious so she stopped coming round. My mate saw me talking to her in the gym the other day and asked me for her number hahaha!

[whistleblower]

The group classes are a good place to get chatting to people. At my gym you notice the little communities forming of people who always do the same classes. You look less weird talking to people in group settings such as these. Although if you are doing the classes purely to pick up women then there is no guarantee that hotties will be doing them. My advice would be do the classes as part of your work out regime (I do spin class for my cardio now and again), if some hotties show up its a bonus.

[Bumbles]

I've never seen a succesfull pick up in my gym, although I'm sure some of the girls do just go there for an ego boost. Wearing the tightest clothes they can find and only using the cardio equipment next to the weights area.

I personally wouldn't try it in a gym for the simple reason that I'm a sweaty mess, can't see that appealing to them really.