Taking back the upper hand

[Flamma]

So iv met this chick and we really hit it off. I set up a day 2 over the phone but she seemed flakey so i ignored her untill she begged to meet me. So i set up a date and she STILL flaked on me. Now i didnt act mad, insteada i said "I understand, knowing how to use a watch isnt for everyone but im curious about how you are going to make this up for me" she answeard, "how do you want me to make this up for you". Now should i tell her to meet me at a ceratin place wearing a ceratin thing or somthing like that. Telling her to meet me as a way to make up for it puts her in the "price" position because i view meeting her as a way to make up for it. Or i could tell her to meet me up and say that this is a good beginning.

What do you guys think?

You could say:

"Well you're guna have to pull off something totally radical to make it up to me. Meet me tomorrow and we'll see if you passed"

[Flamma]

Originally Posted by danieljamie

You could say:

"Well you're guna have to pull off something totally radical to make it up to me. Meet me tomorrow and we'll see if you passed"

tried it and she still gave a flakey answear. she said "alright cool, if im not tired" then i said "you know what, forget about it "

she asked why and said i was beeing weird in a fun tone of voice,
i said : im not only weird, Im a freaking mystery!
She laughed.

and we havent spoken since.

where to take it from here?

[Refl3x]

highway to failure

move on

[Y45]

She sounds like an annoying twat! (sorry to be blunt). But i've experienced this myself and it is really frustrating.

Some women, no wait, Most women...no actually, ALL women love attention and they will take it from anyone offering it (even if their not attracted to him/her/it). This one in particular is enjoying the the fact that you're into here and is milking you for your attention by giving you flakey responses that will create more questions then answers.

My advice would be to stop interacting with her. But im going to add to it... instead of just stopping the interaction, i think you should stop on a high point. but, YOU need to be the person to break away...

Edit: I agree with Refl3x on this one... move on shes a waste.

Peace,
Y45

[nova]

Originally Posted by Flamma

she said "alright cool, if im not tired" then i said "you know what, forget about it "

Time to move on. She's not worth your efforts.

[nova]

Originally Posted by Y45

My advice would be to stop interacting with her. But im going to add to it... instead of just stopping the interaction, i think you should stop on a high point. but, YOU need to be the person to break away...

A waste of time. It's a done deal.

[legend]

Maybe you should move on only after telling her you want to fuck her and see how she responds. She's acting like a bitch, you got nothing to lose.

[Flamma]

Originally Posted by legend

Maybe you should move only after telling her you want to fuck her and see how she responds. She's acting like a bitch, you got nothing to lose.

Yeah i was actually thinking of going caveman since iv NEVER done somthing even remotley close to that.

Im just wondering if she was flakey because i did somthing wrong or because thats just the way she is.
I think thats the way she is because if i did somthing wrong she wouldnt start running back once i ignored her.

thanks guys, i dont wanna JUST drop it. i like to play out every girl that i get to see where it goes and maybe even learn somthing along the way.

[Y45]

Originally Posted by Flamma

thanks guys, i dont wanna JUST drop it. i like to play out every girl that i get to see where it goes and maybe even learn somthing along the way.

i think that's cool as long as you dont get emotionally attached. or even remotely get ur emotions involved. if that ever happens you lose control and a man without control is not attractive. Peace.

Y45