What is the eventual goal in pick up?

[Mad_Fer_It]

Was thinking about this tonight, and I've realised that I am more happy now that I'm in a relationship and not really looking to bang other girls. Does this mean I have 'won'? Or do I just have a bad case of one-itis? Or am I growing up?

Is the end goal in pick-up to bang X number of women, maybe triple figures, or enough until you feel you can call yourself a man, or alpha, or whatever?

Or is the end goal happiness? Or self fulfillment as a person? Or to develop your social skills to a level where you can pick and choose which women to sleep with? Or to find that 'special' one?

Or is the end goal in pick up....to not need pick up? To not have that itch that is scratched every time you go out to sarge, and every time you get a new girl into bed.

These aren't rhetorical questions, I'm genuinely curious to see what you all think - and I don't think there's a right answer. Although, I'm sure people like Mystery didn't get there, and probably still don't know what the eventual goal is....maybe there isn't even one altogether!

Thoughts?

[Loke]

The goal of pick up is to transcend pick up and become a better, socially, well adjusted successful human being. That said, if you find a girlfriend that you settle down with. I guess you did win

I know I feel like I won when I'm with my girlfriend

[Rebus]

- to have no regrets

- to fufil your ambitions

- to be in control

- ...leading to satisfaction

[Refl3x]

My goal is pure self development, pushing my own boundaries

[Maxemillion]

To become superhuman, nearly there..

[BCB]

To help my live forever... so far so good

[Paddy]

I just want to get a different STD a week. Is that too much to ask?

[Midas touch]

I just want to have EVERYTHING that I want ALL the time.

[Mad_Fer_It]

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Strong lack of sensible answers

Don't you ever think about this kind of stuff? You do all realise that women won't make you happy, regardless of how many you bang? Look at Charlie Sheen ffs.

BRB making a thread about how I went out and told 100 girls I'm going to fuck them but still didn't get laid, and getting 100 responses to the thread.

[Knave]

I’m very grown up run my own business how grown up can you get?

You are way off man, way off.

A lot of guys enter PU for all sorts of reasons confidence, pulling underwear models, looking for a wife, work in IT and not been laid since Uni (only kidding guys)

Let me ask you this. Do you think its useful to learn to drive? Of course it is.

Its a useful skill whether you chose to have a car, have several or not.
You’re safe in the knowledge that if you need to drive you can do it.

Being a AFC is like having a provisional with half a dozen lessons under your belt you know if you need to drive there is a good chance you’ll fuck it up.
AFC’s fuck it up with remarkable regularity, I’ve watched them do it, then I step in

So back to your question. There doesn’t need to be an end result. If your girlfriend dumps you know that you can head into a local Tescos’s and come out with a pint of milk and a girls number. AFC’s are staggering round clubs asking ten women ‘your nice’ and getting fuck all for the trouble.

It’s a skill that you can choose to improve, use it to get 100 girls a month or find that one true love, always knowing if you find yourself alone and you see a cute blonde on a barstool you’ll not struggle with 5th gear.

End result there is none, well maybe you start to dismiss anything below 9