3 things that have changed your life
 

Random post.

I've been thinking about how much both my game and personailty has improved over the last year or so and thinking about what I've seen, watched or read that has helped me along the way. Here's the top 3 I could think of:

The Mind of Stormy

This is probably up there as the most useful thing I've come across that has not only changed my game, but the way I think as well. It's an article on another PUA site all about inner game and ego. It's an absolute gem that was linked to by Kowalski aaaaaages ago on another thread. This was so useful for me in-fact that I might change this as my signature.

Pick Up Artist :: Frame Control, Defining Reality, and Being High-Value

The Power of Now

Bought this as an audiobook after reading the above article. It's a book written by Eckhart Tolle about spiritual enlightenment and all that jazz. I highly recommend it if you can put up with his voice for 8 hours.

Picking up girls on the subway

A rediculously funny video of these two comedians hitting on girls in the subway. I had crippling AA before I watched this video. After seeing it I realised it was the fact that I took myself waaaayyy too seriously that stopped me approaching girls. If you're a nooby, get watching.





I think it'd be great for you guys to share your lists, I'm interested in seeing the 3 things that have changed you guys the way that these have changed me. I've deliberately left out both The Game and The Blueprint Decoded as they're pretty much the standard thing for everybody.

Subway pickup video - looooool

I've often thought about chatting to randoms on the tube, that may just inspire me to do it

sooo love this thread.

Man there are so many things I could list. All the different books, movies, music, people and experiences are endless and always changing.

Il start with 3 things I've read in the last 6 months that have changed my outlook on life.


1) The many many useful and useless posts found on this fine forum.


2) Got Fight? The 50 Zen Principles of Hand-To-Face combat - Forrest Griffin


3) Meditations - Marcus Aurelius


4) On The Shortness of Life - Seneca

True change comes from within.

I hit rock bottom was maxing out the doctors depression scale with maximum marks

I was in a deep hole, totally alone and every minute of every day was a living hell
I sobbed 20 times a day

Like an onion all the layers were peeled off until i was left alone stripped down to my core

I was reborn and i am slowly re-wrapping myself with all the right layers

Just spent the last 2 hours reading this! Amazing.

Thanks for the link :biggthumpup:

This book has been mentioned loads recently. Think I'll definately have to give it a go.

That subway thing was hilarious. Reminded me of some of my approaches :p

Aside from The Game, Blueprint Decoded and this fine forum, mine are:

1) Being rejected by beautiful women - once I discovered how it felt to be rejected, I lost the majority of my fear of it. I now open girls by telling them my "some woman thought I was on smack" story, or about the time I got slapped by a girl in Sheffield and genuinely don't give two shits about how they respond.

2) The Apocalypse opener - it and variations of it have proven invaluable in picking up pissed sluts, especially in nightclubs.

3) The Never Ending Days of Being Dead, by Marcus Chown. There's a very real chance that the Universe and everything in it is simply a digital code. The laws of Physics are the laws of nothing. There are an infinite number of Universes in which an infinite number of possibilities are played out. At the end of the Universe, we will be resurrected inside a computer of infinite processing power. Now how do you feel about being rejected by a hot girl?

1) Moving to Bristol and getting back into my music, which gave me the confidence to be myself again

2) Losing the girl that I was engaged to and realising I needed to change my life because I was a mess

3) The sex change where I became a man

things that have changed my life within the last year or two;

• reading the game
  
• going improv, yep thats right k
  
• listening to blueprint
  
• reading up on tolle/ego vs self esteem
  
• joining gym and going hardcore
  
• bagging my current job...talk about steep as fuck learning curve...luv it tho!
  
• and this faggy forum

the above relate to areas i feel i was lacking in recently, its not my all time 3 (or 7)