Go Back   PUA Forums - The UK's Leading Pick-up Artist Forum > Pickup Forums > General Chat


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
(#1)
Old
Junior Member
 
Default HB behaviour is weird - 17-11-2021, 09:20 AM

Hey, I met a girl a couple days ago and we spend a lot of time together. Now she is lovely, she is sexy, the sex is great. But she always interrupts me, talks bad about me (and covers it up as a joke), annoys me on purpose and sometimes just straight up doesn't understand stuff I say and makes up things. Like that one story where she mixed up shit and is convinced I told my own story wrong?? I know for 100% that she mixed it up, but there is no way of telling her.

She is like a real life troll. Always messing with people and she doesn't know when to stop.

Now, okay. It's alright. Normally just walk away, right? But later she comes back and acts like nothing happened or that we are over the fight. Usually the same night or the next morning. I, apparently, never am allowed a reason to be angry at her and since she always forgives me we are fine according to her.

And even when she says she doesn't keep grudges she keeps bringing up shit from the past whenever we fight.

I know her since like 8-9 days now and we spend every day together since, and she isn't even from the UK and sort of just trying to get back where she's from.

I really like her when we are not fighting or she is trying to annoy me, she's funny and outgoing, adventurous and a down to earth person. What should I do? Endure these fuck up moments? (Which always happened when she had drink (and yes, she said herself she has a drinking problem although she gets drunk on like very little, and she is drunk every night).

Left her yesterday to do something of my own, but that thing isn't happening and she is acting again like everything is fine again but I really just want her to know she fucked up and that I don't want that.

I told her, but I don't think she got it. She happily chatted about whatever happened to her this morning and ask me why I say the things I say.

Don't know what I want here. Guess just letting it out?
Just wish I could make her understand that she fucked up, too.

Last edited by DaredevilDom; 17-11-2021 at 09:25 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote

Don't like ads? Register a free account to make them go away forever.

(#2)
Old
Dr_Zed's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 17-11-2021, 10:08 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by DaredevilDom View Post
she isn't even from the UK and sort of just trying to get back where she's from.
Well, how long are you actually expecting her to stick around for?

I mean, if you care about spending time with her rather than moving on and finding someone better, you're basically dealing with a psychopath. It's like you have to write down everything she's saying and document it so that when she claims everything is fine you can pull that shit out later.

Again though, is it worth the effort?

Z


Professional bum. I post here as I have too much time on my hands :P
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Dr_Zed For This Useful Post:
kowalski (18-11-2021)
(#3)
Old
kowalski's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Send a message via Skype™ to kowalski
Default 17-11-2021, 03:16 PM

This is some crazy shit.

You met her 10 days ago and you've been spending all day every day together since then? What the fuck... did I read that wrong?


Peace,

kowalski


Like a stray bullet, you niggas misled
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to kowalski For This Useful Post:
Jaz (Today)
(#4)
Old
New User
 
Default 18-11-2021, 02:33 AM

Enjoy the sex bro, it's won't be forever - ignore the rest.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to robjones69 For This Useful Post:
kowalski (18-11-2021)
(#5)
Old
Junior Member
 
Default 18-11-2021, 10:43 AM

I know right? Crazy shit. Told her I am fed up with her bullshit, and she mocks me for being upset.

Yesterday she was almost kicked out of the hostel where we stayed together because she has big lip and talks a lot of bullshit, so I listen to her argue for a couple of minutes, ask for a private word with the manager and suddenly they're (she and someone else) were NOT being thrown out.

5 minutes later she gets upset how I helped her.

So I fucked off, stopped talking to her, went to bed and she comes and wakes me, makes some stupid jokes in the middle of the room. I slip out when she went to the toilet and come back 2 hours later to her sleeping in my bed........... Best thing is still to come: I try to sleep in my bed for obvious reasons. And shes a bit sick and tosses and turns and I say "fuck it, I sleep in your bed then" cause it's a stupid bunk bed right, made for one person. So she says "yeah that's better".

Basically threw me out of my own bed, too, like it's nothing.

This morning she tries to act like nothings going on, just a regular morning. But I was not having it. And she asked me whats wrong so I tell her that she is really ungrateful. Now she tried to tell me that they magically changed their minds and it was not my doing that they could stay.... Because yes, sure. Hostel receptionists say "No, pack your shit right away" and then change their minds if you talk back enough. JFC!

The other guy told her that she was super ungrateful so this morning she says "I rehearsed for this. Ahem. Thanks to only you and your might we could have stayed. Thanks your holiness. Is this what you wanted to hear?"

Super sarcastic.

Now I fuckd off to work in a cafe and she gives me messages like "Are you pissed at me? Oh so youre gonna do this again. Where are you working? I don't see you in the lobby? Are you hiding from me?"

Never stick your dick in crazy, man. The sex is great, but that's basically all that keeps you.

Last edited by DaredevilDom; 18-11-2021 at 11:33 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#6)
Old
Dr_Zed's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 18-11-2021, 01:52 PM

In that case, I'll kindly refer you to this guide that Jaz wrote a while ago:

https://www.puaforums.co.uk/seductio...r-your-ex.html

Z


Professional bum. I post here as I have too much time on my hands :P
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#7)
Old
Junior Member
 
Default 18-11-2021, 04:15 PM

She's not my ex and I don't need to get over her. Why reference?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#8)
Old
Dr_Zed's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 24-11-2021, 08:25 PM

She should be your ex.

Get.
Away.
From.
Her.


Professional bum. I post here as I have too much time on my hands :P
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Dr_Zed For This Useful Post:
kowalski (24-11-2021)
(#9)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default 25-11-2021, 06:06 PM

How old are you mate? Looks like you can learn a value lessons from this girl. Recognising manipulative behaviour and how to not let it affect you. Positively manipulate the manipulator. Or easy option, leave.


Quote:
So I fucked off, stopped talking to her, went to bed and she comes and wakes me, makes some stupid jokes in the middle of the room. I slip out when she went to the toilet and come back 2 hours later to her sleeping in my bed........... Best thing is still to come: I try to sleep in my bed for obvious reasons. And shes a bit sick and tosses and turns and I say "fuck it, I sleep in your bed then" cause it's a stupid bunk bed right, made for one person. So she says "yeah that's better".
Take this for example. You went to bed with the intention to sleep, and she wakes you up because she wants your attention... when you didn't give it to her she wanted to get back at you. Which she successfully did, by stealing your bunk. LOL. If you had it again, what would you have done differently?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#10)
Old
Jaz's Avatar
Jaz Jaz is offline
Administrator
 
Default Today, 03:52 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by DaredevilDom View Post
she mocks me for being upset.
Lol. You need to stop being such a bitch and chill out man.


She doesn't seem any more crazier then any other bird, sounds like a good laugh tbh. You are the problem here.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


Pick-Up Artist Forum UK
Copyright © 2021

Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.