Openners

[LiMiT]

I am new to the PUA seen and i am trying to find some good openners to use

so far all i have been useing are openners that i have got of the top of my

head could any one hlep me out !!!!

its been working but i would like to have one or two openners that i can use

incase i cant think of any of the top of my head

[Retro]

You may call bullshit, but the ones I feel most comfertouble with are; hi, hey and alright! I've tried the canned stuff (dental floss, who has more one night stands etc) and I just fell they are cheesy as hell.

I'm sure the guys will have others you can try.

Andy

[LiMiT]

Thank u i will do my best to keep i natural and of the top of my head

[Yoshi]

Best openers are the ones that are tailored to the situation you and the girl have found yourselves in. Just stay open minded and spontaneous and always try to find something that you could use to open a girl with - i.e. what's going around you and her, her chihuahua, bus driver screeching his tyres and driving like a madman, making you almost having spilled the Coke from McD's you hold, whatever.

Canned openers are generally good at the very first stage, when you combat approach anxiety and whatnot. Nonetheless, they soon become quite unuseful, and it's really best to stick to the ones you've made up yourself at the very time you're just about to open.

Good luck.

[LiMiT]

thanks for the help !!!!

does any one have any canned poenners that have had success in passed ????

[Darood]

Originally Posted by LiMiT

thanks for the help !!!!

does any one have any canned poenners that have had success in passed ????

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/showthread...ight=good+mood

Use it, Never done me wrong in the past, perfect for large groups with high energy.

I say though come up with your own, its more fun

[anthony]

Kowalski's reference has loads of canned openers (The Art of Approaching from www.scribd.com).

I do both natural and canned.

Natural for me is usually a bit smoother (when it is more or less natural), but sometimes when the context is more challenging I find it tough.

eg, when there is a seated set or something I really struggle with coming out with a natural opener. I think to myself – what do I say?

So in some situations I really struggle with natural openers, and I find opinion openers work really well. Success in the sense of (after a few minutes of ditching the canned thread) going on to make a connection with non-canned conversation, and a number close and meeting up for days two and onward. I'm not too good at one-night kiss closes just yet.

I've yet to see anyone open as readily using natural openers, especially in the above situations - If I see it, or learn to do it myself better, then I might make the switch to natural only content.

Anthony

[Darood]

I'd rarther have a canned opener and approach than not knowing what to say and not talking. Canned and doing it is better than nothing. I love knowing i can start an inetresting conversation and take it where i want to take it.

Oh and i despise the dental floss opener too many times ive had to justyfy the after brushing ( I dont even care...) lol

[LiMiT]

THANK YOU GUYS

for all the help i am finding this all g8 and really helpfuly to me i want to try and keep things natural but just wait a full back if i have a off day

[Monk]

what do you think to this opener i think it may be too obvious what your trying to acheive here for an indirect approuch
"hey me and my frind are doing a survey in the bars on socail studys of human behavier in clubs and bars and what there actually trying to acheive do you mind if we run this past you quicklyhow many peaple are here to have fun raise your hands ok how many here are single" (great way to find out who will be most intrested) then were to go from there and could anyone help me with things to say after openers.