Creating even more intense desire

[Flamma]

Alright so basically im gonna meet this chick that i have been talking on the phone for a couple of weeks now with for the first time. The only problem is that out of nowhere BAM! i get pizza face (pimples). I dont usally have alot of acne and theese ones that i have gotten are getting better but i still have a few bumps and redness on some places but whatever this isnt a medicall community so enough about that. What i have been thinking about is, How should i reschedule this "date". Should i tell her im ill and that il call her when im better. Should i tell her something came up and that il call later or should i reschedule immediatley so she doesnt think that im not interested?

I remember david D saying somthing about him having a friend who ALWAYS cancelled on the first date. In his case it was to avoid women flaking on him but im thinking that maybe if i did it this time i could maybe create more desire while getting some time for my face to heal, the question is should i tell her im ill or that something came up.

Ill = i HAVE to cancell but i wanna meet you

something came up but reschedule = I really want to meet you but somthing more important than you came up right now (which might create some more desire)

what do you guys think?

[Rebus]

wear a paper bag

[Loke]

WTF dude, your acne means nothing...

[Flamma]

Originally Posted by Loke

WTF dude, your acne means nothing...

Ofcourse it has some effect. I mean this is the first time im gonna meet her so acne will definietly have some negative effects on first impression, and kissing a person with acne is also less desireable

[Breaker]

just buy some concealer... as long as its not extreme will sort it out a treat. I get spots sometimes, but my experience is that most of the time you think they look worst than they actually are, mainly cos you can feel them under you skin or look athem close up in the mirror.

[Flamma]

alright thanks guys, im gonna try the concealer thing and tony77, you just boosted up my inner game a little bit. i do watch my diet since im a very serious athlete and i exercise everyday. I felt bad about your skin condition but you dont seem to be bothered by it so neither am i going to be . all luck to you my friend

[Status]

Please do not use concealer. It's like putting a mask and will cause more harm than good in terms of your inner game. You'll only become more self conscious as a result.
Just reschedule.

[Breaker]

Originally Posted by Tw1sted

Please do not use concealer. It's like putting a mask and will cause more harm than good in terms of your inner game. You'll only become more self conscious as a result.
Just reschedule.

Sorry but I disagree with this, if you're conscious of your spots before you cover them up, like the poster obviously is, your inner game will be fucked already. The biggest thing is feeling comfortable with the way you look, if I have a spot I always minimize the damage with a concealer stick and no-one has ever noticed or mentioned it. If someone did mention it I really wouldn't give a fuck. If you believe like I do that its as normal to cover a spot as it to wear deodorant for BO or use breath mints for bad breath, it's pretty hard for anyone to argue you shouldn't use it.

[nova]

Originally Posted by Tw1sted

Please do not use concealer. It's like putting a mask and will cause more harm than good in terms of your inner game. You'll only become more self conscious as a result.
Just reschedule.

This is somewhat contradictory. If we're looking to build his inner game then surely he should plough on through this and go ahead with the date. If she has a big issue with a few spots then I'd imagine she's not worth his time, unless of course shallow girls who only care about who they are seen with are his thing. If anything she'll probably be impressed that he doesn't find it an issue to go through with the date with a load of spots as he is demonstrating that he doesn't give a sh*t what anyone thinks.

[Flamma]

Originally Posted by nova

This is somewhat contradictory. If we're looking to build his inner game then surely he should plough on through this and go ahead with the date. If she has a big issue with a few spots then I'd imagine she's not worth his time, unless of course shallow girls who only care about who they are seen with are his thing. If anything she'll probably be impressed that he doesn't find it an issue to go through with the date with a load of spots as he is demonstrating that he doesn't give a sh*t what anyone thinks.

i see your point but there should be a limit. by your standards then you should go on a date in a track suit looking like you just woke up ?