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DaredevilDom 03-10-2021 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 134365)
Theyve seen that Im not. And Im not. So you are wrong and you wont be able to convince anyone who knows me that you are right. Therefore, think whatever you want to think, write whatever you want to write, you are wasting your time.. but no worries for you there, you are that.

Thats the point I was making which, whilst being incredibly simple, flew right over your head.

I was gonna do this whether you were here or not.
On the other hand you are only doing this because of me.
Thats how interesting I am.


Peace,

kowalski

You're so interesting I didn't evne make one bit of effort to get to know more of you and keep saying you have a huuuuuge ego. And you do. You're pathetic.

tcda86 03-10-2021 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 133721)
It is definitely cringey to say "I just saw you from over there and thought you're cute" though. One would say "hi, you are cute" and then one would keep talking. There's a world of difference between the two. "I just" reduction of yourself to "just" like it is just this nothing more, only little me with a little interruption, please ignore me I have no confidence. "See you from over there" does it matter where you were, what's that information for? Is that your alibi is she a cop? And why are you admitting to stalking then from afar and observing them? "I thought" also no, that is past tense and only your opinion. "I think" is present tense, which would be better but why couch it, just stating it as an independent fact "you are cute".

I'm going to try this, the reasoning makes sense, thanks.

kowalski 05-10-2021 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by dan300 (Post 134412)
How come your job might be soon going down the shitter?

Not the whole job, I think that’s safe for at least another 12 months. I was concerned about the working from home part ending, or changing sufficiently that I would have to return to Madrid.

However, I found out on Friday that in the new “hybrid working plan” it will be proposed that I go to the office once a month for two consecutive days. I can accommodate that whilst living in Sevilla or anywhere else with a high speed direct train line to Madrid.


Peace,

kowalski

kowalski 06-10-2021 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by tcda86 (Post 134434)
I'm going to try this, the reasoning makes sense, thanks.

Yeah, the reasoning checks out. Don't get lost in the minutia though, the most important part was - keep talking.


Peace,

kowalski

Dr_Zed 06-10-2021 01:34 PM

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It is definitely cringey to say "I just saw you from over there and thought you're cute" though
Made me chuckle somewhat when a "coach" I hired last year used that as his main opening statement. Pretty obvious copy-paste job. I wonder who even came up with that opener?

Unsurprisingly, his approaches didn't work.

dan300 06-10-2021 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 134455)
Not the whole job, I think thats safe for at least another 12 months. I was concerned about the working from home part ending, or changing sufficiently that I would have to return to Madrid.

However, I found out on Friday that in the new hybrid working plan it will be proposed that I go to the office once a month for two consecutive days. I can accommodate that whilst living in Sevilla or anywhere else with a high-speed direct train line to Madrid.

That sounds much more promising. I was worried for a second there that you might find yourself back at British Gas asking for your old desk.

I've just applied for another remote job, similar to the remote one I'm doing now (the side job). I could simply go FT time with that one, but I want to try another POA first.

I feel like walking away from this boring credit control job, though. My soul left this building back when I originally resigned in June and the fucks wouldn't just let me go.

DaredevilDom 09-10-2021 04:36 PM

What are those jobs? I look for remote work, too, and I am not overly happy with my current one.

dan300 09-10-2021 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DaredevilDom (Post 134512)
What are those jobs? I look for remote work, too, and I am not overly happy with my current one.

I got rejected for that one the next day. I applied for another remote one tonight as a Proposal Writer.

The one I currently do is as an account manager for a US content production agency, in which I also do proofreading and editing of the pieces of work I manage. It's a very fun and enjoyable job. I'll be transitioning to full-time on January 1st.

I subscribed to https://www.flexjobs.com/ last Christmas when they had a black Friday deal of half-price subscription. I got a full year for $25. It's turned out to be a worthwhile investment when we consider that I found a steady side job that I've currently netted 2k from, in my spare time, and will be transitioning to full-time soon.

If you're looking for an online job, I can't recommend Flexjobs enough. Even if you pay the full $50 for a year.

bethatsocialguy 11-10-2021 11:44 AM

I mean most of the time, its not what you say, its how you say it. Anything can sound creepy if you say it in a creepy way. The best thing to say is usually "Hey, Im _______. I like your style, it looks very _______."

But again it is how you say it. You have to be very none caring about the result..as if you are just giving her the compliment without expecting anything in return.

bethatsocialguy 11-10-2021 12:03 PM

I mean most of the time, its not what you say, its how you say it. Anything can sound creepy if you say it in a creepy way. The best thing to say is usually "Hey, Im _______. I like your style, it looks very _______."

But again it is how you say it. You have to be very none caring about the result..as if you are just giving her the compliment without expecting anything in return. This attitude will come across as attractive as you are very relaxed which means she will feel more comfortable to stay around you.


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