Shit!! What have I done
 

I introduced myself a few months ago... after reading the game and some other related material went out 'in my own little world' as most of my friends either married, girlfriends ect.. They just dream of the stuff I get up too!

Ok so its been pretty much a success, with a good few numbers every night, girls approaching me in pubs after I have very briefly talked to them or made a comment some night or time before.

Well my predicament is that.. one such girl has won my heart very quick!!! she has a BF living with her and 2 kids.. hope to fuck he is not on here! long and short of it is she has said that she wants to leave him but for the kids (NOT HIS) 1. What should I do to make her leave him 2. Why has she won me over so quickly 3.What are the chances that she will actually leave him??

Forward my thanks in advance to what could be a long discussion

Asbo, I hope that you aren't implying that you want to get rid of this live-in BF via deception. I assume you want to go another route: genuine.

So, be a guy that she wants. To increase your chance of achieving that, what is it she wants? Behave as that guy (DISCLAIMER: clearly if what she wants is too far a leap from who you actually are at your core, then give up with this women before it ends in tears).

What to do / What is it she wants?

I assume that she is already attracted to you. If not, your post was wildly premature (!)

Since you are looking to create a longer-term thing, and since you wish to give out a "I like relationships" vibe, then ask:
"what are you looking for in a relationship?"
Then ask her to rank in priority (A, B, C).
Then later on during time together repeat back to her that you guys are so good together as you have: A, B, C.... you must have demonstrated or talked about some of these values/actions before this.
While doing the above don't come across as needy, instead be relaxed, smile, keep it fun!

There are no silver bullets for this, the above is just one small nugget.

What not to do

You also must know by now why she doesn't like ex-BF, so don't do these things.

To utilise one of Knave's infamous statistics, a 38.34 % chance

Hey Rebus

Cheers for replying,

been playing on my mind a lot! There is absolute no deception here as I know how serious this situation is, and anyhow I have known her for a long time and have always had a thing for her, and the feelings have been mutual... lot of chemistry which is why it has taken me by surprise!

I know that there is potential of a great time together and the kids.. we both share the same ideas of a relationship, simple things that she is just not getting with her BF. I won't go into detail just on the off chance some of his friends or he is connected to the community.

For once there is some substance to what I have been looking for in my last year of experiences with women.

The 38% chance is low, so I need not leave it to chance and make it happen! I have a lot to offer which I think should play to my advantage.

Cheers

What, seriously?

How are these infamous statistics calculated then?! I am going to put a time limit to myself on the whole thing! Anyone else had experiences of girls leaving their BF?