Friendzoned?
 

Oke there is this married girl at work who is flirting with me with her body language from time to time like one time in the cantine we looked at eachother and nodded and then she was walking away in a sexy manner (slow and moving her ass more than usual) knowing i was the only one looking at her and then stops walking for a few seconds and then looks back to see if a was looking at her and then continuas walking and disappearing around a corner. We from time to time when we get the chance talk to eachother at work(mostly her because i ask her a lot of open ended questions). But i try not to hit on her but i do make a lot of eyecontact and give her a subtle compliment from time to time like "you are smart". I don't chase her or anything but ahe reallly makes me go crazy when she does this. Then one time we where standing in a line with other collegues and i tried to not look at her and than whe had a moment of eyecontact for like 3 seconds or so and i smiled subtly with my eyes and looked away and after that she turns her back to me with her head pointed downwards thouching a pillar next to her looking little sad/shy? (I cant read her that well) and from there on she turned back on and off and i can feel she looks at me when i dont look. Was this creepy eyecontact or what does her reaction mean? Than the next day i asked her to borrow me her charger and when i wanted to give it back i took it out of my pocket and the wire was kind of hanging so i rolled it to be polite and the out of nowhere she goes aaawww thank you and THAT i really didnt like because this usualy means she just friendzoned me and after that i gave her the charger a said to her "you are very sweet, thank you" and then left and she was looking down and smiling. I have no clue how to proceed with her. And also she is married and i dont want to come off as a creep. Any advice on how to proceed?

Creepzoned… where you belong.

Imagine being a girl and having to deal with this shit all the time. Her every minuscule gesture put under a microscope as a potential signal of sexual interest when she is just trying to be a good employee as a probably not that attractive married woman.

You have to sort this out in your own head, kid, because that’s the only place any of this is real. Just go to work, do your job and be friendly, leave this our lady alone and seek professional help for your potentially dangerous delusions.


Peace,

kowalski

What are you doing in pua forum if you are a creep reading a womans signals of attraction for you? I am just trying to understand what this woman wants from me because she is clearly trying to make me attracted to her by the way she behaves in front of me. If someone is a creep than it would be her showing these signals while she is married.

Here’s another nutjob that we’ll see get arrested in the news one day.


Peace,

kowalski

She might be quite interested in him even though she is married! So I would say that he should try to ask her out one day when the time is right! There is no harm in trying.

Zidane - you know what's really attractive to women? I mean like, aphrodisiac level attractive? I'll let you in on a secret...

... Solid use of punctuation.

It's your lucky day as I'm a grammar coach. If you want then we can discuss a fee and I can tailor your messages so that you write messages like the queen of England.

Z

Stonecastle, you know nothing about the situation. Didn’t you just say the other day that in all your years you’ve never really had any success with any woman? People need to know that when they are reading your “advice”. You should put that as a caveat in every thing you post.


Peace,

kowalski

Zidane, if your observations have been accurate then she might be curious about you or just teasing you. She is probably not getting enough attention from her husband and seeks some form of validation from other guys. Once you give in, my suspicion is that she will loose interest in you.

Personally, I don't go for married women since it's against my code. We never mess up with another man's life.

I have had some success over the years! But it fell through. And the trouble is that almost all the women I meet say they are not single. A couple of weeks ago I successfully number closed a woman in Kensington Garden and we latee went on one date and we are still in touch. I explained in another thread how I had success at Crisis at Christmas back in 2003 or 2004. This woman volunteer there seemed really into me. I gave her my email address which she was glad to take but she never contacted me. If I had taken her email address I would probably succeeded with her. I have also fone literally thousands of approaches but rarely find any single women. I also had inovative ideas like going to libraries to meet women. I met quite a few women there in the 1990s and early 2000s. But most of them turned out to be married or were not interested in me. But I notice that since about 2003 the number of women to be found in libraries had fallen off a lot. I have also done tons of nightgame as well over the year but not had any luck with nightgame.

What you described is exactly 0 success.

You should caveat everything you say here with that fact.


Peace,

kowalski