Shifting your beliefs..
 

Ok last weekend I forced myself to find the hottest hottest hottest looking girls in town and just open with them for nothing more than a 2 minute chat with no ties or intentions. That helped break down my worry about just because she’s hot she is hard to talk to. These girls were all singles except one 2 set.

Coming from someone who never opens before in his life, I found suddenly these hot girls aren't even that interesting so she was quite happy to go with anything I had to talk about. Last weekend my focus was to just end before conversation dried up. I didn’t have any canned routines I could use so just ended with nice meeting you or I got to get back now anyway. One girl even looked surprised that I was leaving so quickly lol.

I've been struggling with getting the guts to go and open sets using the opinion/story based openers feeling that they don't work. It's been holding me up for a bit so I found a way that really helped reframe this idea and it may well just work if I did it in person.

Last night I just wrote some 3 paragraph story about a mate of mine and his psycho ex so there’s some juicy gossip in there then added my opinion on the situation hinting some DHVs. I then went onto plenty of fish and just messaged the top 10 girls on my search and got a 70% return over the last 24 hours.

Some came back with some real deep advice and opinions on the story and I had a set of points prepared after a while which I could lead on to talk about. Now the next step is to go and talk to people in public about this crap and see how they respond.

But if anyone out there is struggling with the whole what should I say thing. Just try it.. write some bull crap story from your life and ask for an opinion on it.

So what ah ha moments did you guys have which helped you out, at any stage. I'm interested to here them.

Can I get subtitles with that please?

Plenty of Fish = Free Online Dating at Plentyoffish.com

Just picked 10 girls on there and sent them a private message containing my pre written story.

70% return then means 7 of them replied back and went into a full conversation with me about it.

have you had any joy with this website?

I'm not to serious with these sites, I did try in the past but never really found anything of interest.

Use it more as a testing platform now, I think I'd much rather go out and meet people for real.