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Default # closed, now on to text game - 13-12-2010, 01:48 PM

Hi Guys,

so i was out sarging this weekend and long story short i number closed a girl (my first since this PUA thing... thank you, thank you, im proud of myself too lol).

We're now texting eachother and its going pretty slow. how do i spark her interest and get her to open up a little with her replies...

also any help and advice to get this picking up some pace would be much appreciated. Thanks.

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Default 13-12-2010, 04:21 PM

Firstly. Don't text her all day. I made that mistake and lost a HB8 from doing so. Was pissed...But you live and learn. Even if she texts you back instantly with a question or this or that. Leave it for a while...Your busy. Another thing I found is that I would be waiting for her to reply and then over thinking shit. Again, bad...So yeah. Don't be texting her all day.

You want to be setting up a date of some sort but you don't want to come across as free all the time either (Even if you are). You want to be meeting on your terms. A way that I find easiest to ask a girl on a date without sounding needy is having a place I want to go drink at or visit that I haven't been before (Or may have, but like it...She doesnt have to know that though). I would simply send a text like this "Have you checked out (name of place) before? Im off on (day your free) and plan on seeing what its about. You free?". If she says yes then game on. If she says no but shes free another day, don't go with the day shes free. Say your busy and YOU pick another day. Remember it has to be on your terms.
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Default 13-12-2010, 04:30 PM

dude thats awesome! thanks.

how soon after do i start to arrange something with her? i met her on Saturaday and called her Sunday evening (she didnt answer but texted) so i texted her back and i always seem to be the last person to text. givng her the power im assuming?
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Default 13-12-2010, 04:57 PM

It really depends on when your free. You have already made the first contact so thats not a problem anymore. Don't contact her today if you haven't already. If she contacts you, usually asking how you are (boring), thenreply with something like "Hey, Im good thanks. Really busy though! Hope your well. Ill text you tomorrow or something when less busy" By saying something like that it's giving you the power AND your not going to be thinking if shes going to reply or text you cause you've told her you would when you can.

Your next message should be to the point though. You could text with something random first and after the reply ask her out or with a "Hey, hope your well" THEN go into the asking out part all in your first message.
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Default 13-12-2010, 05:18 PM

I've already contacted her and it died with me asking her a question :s . There's always the worry that she'll never contact you if you dont make the effort. So i guess i'll wait and see if she either replies to my questio or initiated a text conversation.

i'll let you know how i get on...Thanks again.
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Default 13-12-2010, 06:02 PM

There's no such thing as 'text game'.

If you make a strong impression, in-person, when you first encounter her.

A simple text: "Hey, Let's go for a drink next wednesday or thursday x' is ALL it takes. She'll make time for you.

Text/Phone game doesn't turn shit into gold either.
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Default 13-12-2010, 06:27 PM

I would be talking about meeting up almost straight away after a few texts back and forth. I remember at first I felt nervous about asking girls out but its no big deal.

I dont like to think of it as 'text game' but generally I just try and be flirtatious and tease a lot in texts. Then i'll get straight to the point and sort out the date, its likely that she is waiting for you to ask.


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Default 13-12-2010, 06:41 PM

I think you can game a girl no matter what way you may be communicating with her. I've purely got a girl into bed through mainly texting, A couple of phone conversations and a brief (Like 5 min) coffee meet (I was 'busy'). The second time I met her she ended up in my bed. Good times. Thats just one example...

whistleblower is spot on though. Ive learnt that I only text teasing a flirtatious things. As well as random. Never the boring same old crap. And I like to meet them asap.
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Default 14-12-2010, 11:08 AM

Guys here's an update:

So I went against ur advice and said hi to her on facebook... she took the piss replying so left my computer on and just carried on with what I was doing. When I came back she had replied asking me how i was but she wasn't online by the time I saw it...

So I text her something random like " what are u thinking right now, don't think about ur answer just reply with what ur thinking about" (she takes her time replying) and replies. She then asks me what I'm thinking. I tell her "I'm thinking the song I just finished producing is going tobe a hit, butt I need a singer, can you sing" she says shew rubbish . I then show my disappointment and move straight into telling her I'm going out towards the end of the week for shisha which she enjoys. She says she can't make it but she's free on Saturday. I obviously said I'm busy Saturday (which I'm not) but offered to re arrange at which point the txt conversation died a death

Advice/ thoughts? Maybe help? Lol thanks
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Default 14-12-2010, 05:24 PM

Did you provide a specific day in order to go out or did you just say end of the week? How did you say you were busy? What did you say in regards to rearranging it? And by 'died a death' do you mean she didn't reply to you?

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I never say hi first to girls on facebook unless Im talking to them for the first time. All other interactions made by us over facebook are started by her, period. I hate talking over IM to be honest so try and avoid it.

In future tell the girl you are busy 'this day' 'that day' 'this day' etc and leave a max of 2-3 days left where you are actually 'free'. Preferably in the evening.

I personally wouldn't have text her something as random as you did. It comes across as if your TRYING to create conversation rather than just letting it flow or it being spontanious, thats why I suggested texting something that would relate to her in particular as it adds a reason to why your texting her and not because you just want to 'create conversation'.
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