What is it you think direct is exactly??

[Phil]

Can everyone put down their view of a DIRECT approach

tell me what you think direct is

give an example of a direct approach real or made up!

[Joe_Fresh]

Originally Posted by kowalski

If person thinks x -

• Direct - "x"
• Indirect - "y ... (x)"

say whatever u think, does it not matter if its couched in a routine/line?

eg go up to a girl in a club and say in a playful but awesome french accent, "u r beautiful, do u speak french?" she says "no..hehe" u say "do u know how to french kiss" she says "ermm" you say "well i must show u...come here"

is this direct?..real intention is clear from start..u think shes beautiful and want to kiss her...

[Zone]

I said to girl behind a bar once, after she served me, I said "can i say something to you, I find you very attractive".

Fairly Direct I feel.

[Joe_Fresh]

Originally Posted by Phil

Can everyone put down their view of a DIRECT approach

tell me what you think direct is

give an example of a direct approach real or made up!

ur response to the op was vague, ur "definition" was lacking, so yes if i read that in a dictionary i would dig deeper to get a better understanding

that time of the month?

[Midas touch]

Originally Posted by Zone

I said to girl behind a bar once, after she served me, I said "can i say something to you, I find you very attractive".

Fairly Direct I feel.

There's nothing wrong with that. It's a compliment and not vulgar. On the other hand she probably hears it a lot and so it is only going to do you any favours if she also finds you attractive based on her first impression of you.

[Midas touch]

Originally Posted by tony77

Direct is being clear about yoru intentions right from the start! "hi I just noticed you and I would be kicking myself all day if I didn;t tell you, you are... really gorgeous"

That's fine. She's going to have to be attracted to you though for that to get you somewhere.

[Paddy]

Going direct just means having the bottle to say/do whatever you're feeling. It doesn't mean if I'm thinking a girl is hot I'm necessarily going to blurt out 'I WANT TO FUCK YOU', it just means, well not playing mental chess and actually engaging with people on a natural level that feels natural to you.

[nova]

Originally Posted by Midas touch

That's fine. She's going to have to be attracted to you though for that to get you somewhere.

Sometimes it is that very action of putting your balls on the line that creates the attraction.

[Phil]

then i dont think direct works... i think if u go up to a girl and say I LIKE YOU, its too easy, ive tried that before, few times for curiosity purpous, dont work

, Hi just thought id come speak to you, bein a NICE GUY dont work... plus girls think "HE IS PRETENDIN TO BE NICE, BUT HE HAS THE BALLS TO COME STR8 UP LIKE THAT, DEFO A PLAYER"

so if ur gonna approach direct like a player, make sure its apparant you are, and she doesnt think ur pretendin to be nice... remember

PEOPLE ARE GENERALLY SUSPICIOUS OF PEOPLE THEY DONT KNOW WHO APPROACH THEM i.e. sales etc

u have more chance goin up an bein RAW CHEEK, where do you want me to take you?

[Midas touch]

You can't make somebody fancy you just by telling them that you fancy them and you can't make somebody want to fuck you just by telling them that you are going to fuck them. Attraction just doesn't work like that. We're not living in a porno. Maybe if they already fancy you loads.

Instant attraction is physical. If she is not physically attracted to you then you will have to attract her with your personality, which takes time.