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Default 28-02-2021, 05:04 PM

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If you walk into a club or worse yet go on an app, and you can plausibly only get with 5 women out of a hundred, versus 80...you're cool with that?
I'm unironically cool with that.

I think the way you're skewing this here is wrong but it's really not the point here. If for the sake of argument we just assume you're right here - then what exactly? It shouldn't stop you from doing whatever you want to do. I don't see any point in bringing it up unless you want to have a pity party about it


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Default 01-03-2021, 03:16 PM

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So, I post this in the expectation of getting flamed but it's been my experience living in a white majority country:

White British girls show a strong preference for dating only white guys. This has been exacerbated by apps and on-line dating, which allow people to screen based on superficial characteristics. The exceptions I have found are a minority (maybe 10%ish?) that have a fetish/strong preference for a specific other race (arab, south Asian, black usually I notice) AND older women, 40/45 plus, who seem much less hung up on race.

It's rarely talked about because few girls will readily admit racial screening and risk being labelled racist, and it's not something provable unless a girl outright states "I don't date non-whites/browns/blacks" etc. Most girls have too much social intelligence to do that.

I think the more honest we are, the more we can progress. YMMV.
Where is your data from?

inb4 personal experience
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Default 02-03-2021, 05:12 PM

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Women have specific tastes and that changes from person to person... There are many women that don't want my skin colour type and that's fair enough its their choice to date what they want? You should just work on the factors you can control . Your smv , looks , grooming, fashion , hobbies , interests and work from there don't go into the details too much because in the long run you'll just be infected with a victim mentality. (im guilty of this more than anyone )
Wise words and I agree. To clarify my position, it's the denial that it's going on, and that it is the denying of opportunities to someone based on their skin colour, that is my issue. The problem is one thing but what really vexes me is hearing it doesn't exist.

You can make an argument for dating preferences based on age, height, build, etc. being legitimate, based on rational/practical terms, far more than you can race. Even then I have a lot of sympathy for people who suffer on those criteria. So how people think it's ok to rule someone out based purely on skin colour is beyond me
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Also I think it is far more a result of conditioning than we think. If girls were bombarded chinese James Bonds, indian footballers, arab Tom cruises, etc. I suspect they would have broader tastes
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Default 02-03-2021, 05:43 PM

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Wise words and I agree. To clarify my position, it's the denial that it's going on, and that it is the denying of opportunities to someone based on their skin colour, that is my issue. The problem is one thing but what really vexes me is hearing it doesn't exist.

You can make an argument for dating preferences based on age, height, build, etc. being legitimate, based on rational/practical terms, far more than you can race. Even then I have a lot of sympathy for people who suffer on those criteria. So how people think it's ok to rule someone out based purely on skin colour is beyond me
Anything is legitimate in attraction. If you aren’t into something, you aren’t into it and that’s that. You are even more retarded than the other guy.


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Default 02-03-2021, 06:09 PM

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Anything is legitimate in attraction. If you aren’t into something, you aren’t into it and that’s that. You are even more retarded than the other guy.


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You have some real anger issues man. No need to be hateful bro, you have problems
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Default 02-03-2021, 06:16 PM

lol the retardedness multiplies with every post.

Does Charlie Brooker have anger issues?

You may not be aware of this but most people can type any words without feeling anything. I can type “ooohweee I’m angerrrryy” without actually being angry. You can’t determine anything about someone’s emotional state from the words they type. That's so obvious, why do you need that explaining to you? Because you are retarded af, you dumbass piece of shit.

I can’t even remember the last time I was angry. I don’t hate you, I’m merely accurately describing you. You can’t write more than 59 words without contradicting yourself. That’s how this works. You’ll never figure it out.


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Default 02-03-2021, 06:55 PM

Nah man, that’s not quite right. Looks in general are secondary to women. They might have a preference about looks but really they are using the look as a sign of other qualities they are after: protection, money, intelligence, artistic ability, etc. And they’ll be open to almost anyone with those qualities with little regard for looks.


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Default 03-03-2021, 01:54 PM

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lol the retardedness multiplies with every post.

Does Charlie Brooker have anger issues?

You may not be aware of this but most people can type any words without feeling anything. I can type “ooohweee I’m angerrrryy” without actually being angry. You can’t determine anything about someone’s emotional state from the words they type. That's so obvious, why do you need that explaining to you? Because you are retarded af, you dumbass piece of shit.

I can’t even remember the last time I was angry. I don’t hate you, I’m merely accurately describing you. You can’t write more than 59 words without contradicting yourself. That’s how this works. You’ll never figure it out.
More evidence of your issues. Keep lying to yourself bro
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Default 03-03-2021, 02:01 PM

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Women discriminate a lot more than men and are far pickier. They have 100 different variables going on at any one time you’ll never fully be aware of all of them . My female friends have very specific tastes too I know for example who only dates Middle Eastern men because that’s her type. I have personal types too it’s just what I enjoy and the specific looks. I mean women in general want someone who’s well built tall and muscular because that’s what they’re programmed to like but there are some that like slim nerds because that’s their specific male archetype.

Different women have different male archetypes in their mind and it may change depending on what stage they’re at in their life. You can’t change their wants and needs or get too wound up by it. You can only make sure you approach them in a strong manner displaying the best version of yourself
Good points, the two qualities I find women rate above all others are humour and confidence. Confidence to declare your intent as well (i personally found that being direct ismore effective than anything else, as long as you don't cross the line into sleazy/creepy) and confidence generally with your views, path in life, things you're doing, etc. And humour in terms of making them laugh preferably in a non-needy way.

The question is whether you get a chance to show those qualities or not. I.e. a fair chance
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