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peachmax 03-12-2010 04:48 PM

What will happen if/when everyone knows about PUA techniques??
 
Wont there come a time when it will ALL become predictable. Everything. To the point that these techniques will be rendered useless.

Ofcourse most girls kinda know when the game is on and everything, but what happens when all the guys are doing it there will be nothing

OR is this the very nature of competition, and what are the techniques of today will be the techniques AFC of tommorrow, thus creating new PUA techniques. And the ones that do are the ones who get the pussy.

sapphireblue 03-12-2010 07:30 PM

because we interact with other pua's we tend to think that the techniques are more common than they actually are.

My friends have noticed a huge transformation in my success rate and i always get asked 'what do you say to em'. My mates are not interested about pua stuff and often take the piss, they just want to know the lines that i use. Hence the reason i no longer discuss anything pua with them.

Maxemillion 03-12-2010 11:19 PM

Most people will not dare to use pua skills even if they know about them. or be too busy. or already be in a relationship.

Fox 03-12-2010 11:40 PM

theres no such thing as pua techniques. every guy in the world has their own 'techniques' wether 'pua' or not.

sinstyle 04-12-2010 10:50 PM

chicks stay the same.
Guys flip from guru to guru method to method. Finding your own way is important what works for someone else may not work for you.

Namaste.

bushido 07-12-2010 07:49 PM

There are many people out there that spend months and months learning about pua techniques but never use them..its still going to take balls to talk to a girl, overcome AA..for those that do, they deserve what they get..

nova 08-12-2010 08:45 AM

Forget PUA techniques. It boils down to who has the balls to take what they want. Reading basic texts and watching a few youtube videos isn't gonna change that.

Blanca 08-12-2010 11:31 AM

Jesus OP, you're right - we might have to start having to interact authentically with women we like. God help us.

Blusher 08-12-2010 01:19 PM

When I read the thread, an anecdote comes to mind:

I was in a bar. I spotted a group of three girls and started talking to one of them. I have no idea what I said but it didn't work out too well. A few minutes after, I was making out with one of her friends.

She asked me: "Why did you talk to my friend first? Am I your second choice?"
I gave her a sincer answer: "No, I simply figured I would talk to one of your less-pretty friends so they wouldnt get jealous and cockblock me further down the line."

I wrote about this on a French forum and some guys were worried I was revealing too much of the PUA tactics. I think that's bollocks.


As it happens, my girlfriend owns two editions of The Game, one in English and one in German. :hihi:

Not only that but she studies social and cognitive psychology with a keen interest in researching attraction and arousal...

When both parties know about the game of seduction, it doesn't take the pleasure out of it nor does it make it harder to 'pick-up' someone. If anything, it makes it more sophisticated and more interesting.



To come back to the original question, I don't believe women will suddenly wake up one day and 'know our secret.'

The reason is: there's no secret. I love talking about seduction with women, and share views.

At best, the pua gurus did some reverse engineering in order to identify what make some guys more succesful with women so they can explain it to other men.

It would be naive to think anything new has been invented. It is simply an effort to theorize and teach it.

Nothing earth-shattering about it.

I found out on my own most of what I later read in books and forums... For the simple reason that none of this existed when I was 18.

Most of the stuff anyway is about inner-game. It implies that you'd be able to trust your innate abilities, take chances and learn how to learn from your experiences.

That's how you become authentic, spontaneous and confident.

In short, becoming attractive rather than trying to create attraction ex nihilo.

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we might have to start having to interact authentically with women we like.
Amen to that ;)

Phil 08-12-2010 02:56 PM

it wont happen, the rules to pick up change every year, thats why mystery does a new book every year


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