Girl I used to hook up with messaged me out the blue
 

I girl I've hooked up with this girl a few times she recently messaged me and said

Her - "<Name>!!!" How are you?

Me - I'm great thanks. How are you <Name>

Her - I'm good thank you, was thinking about you and wondered how you were doing with all these lockdown being back

Me - It's nice hearing from you. I'm pretty great all things considered and I have some cool things lined up once the world opens again

Her - Awwww good I'm glad! OOooh sounds exiciting care to share?

I could reply with:-

"I've got some great places to travel to once the world opens up"

Or I could simply reply with "Let's meet and I'll explain more" "Or Let's meet and catch up" What do you think?

There is a covid lockdown at the moment so technically we aren't supposed to meet but she might not care about that. I could always say something like "if you play your cards right I'll let you be my support bubble" (support bubbles are kinda allowed to meet)

It sounds like you are fussing way too much over minor details... "Let's meet and I'll explain more" sounds good... Remember, it's not really what u say that counts (the content)- more the non-verbal "attitude" behind the content, that matters most. She will pick up on your positive, confident attitude and want to meet... or, she will, on the other hand, sense your nervous, depressed state and turn you down. It all comes down to non-verbal factors such as mental state and attitude. If you have the non-verbal part of the equation sussed, the verbal aspects simply fall into place as if by magic. To achieve a strong personality with the right attitude and mental state, I would suggest looking at some NLP stuff like positive affirmations and re-framing, etc... by people like Tony Robbins. In my opinion, NLP really works in producing a positive mental attitude- but it takes time... There is a saying in NLP that goes something like; "If you do the work, the NLP will work for you" - but you have to put the work in...

This is a text conversation, you retard.


Peace,

kowalski

Oooh Big Boy! Now you are really showing your insecurity and stupidity.

Text conversation, or not, one still needs to have a positive mental attitude in order to write an attractive text that will get a good response. In fact, I believe it goes even deeper than this; I believe that people are subtly creating their reality with their mind, and so the girl in question is aware of the attractive vibe (or otherwise) that this guy is broadcasting - whether he sends a text or not. If the guy is broadcasting an overall positive vibe, he is likely to eventually bring about a reality where he gets with this girl...

On a different note... Why the aggression big boy? Obviously you are threatened - wait till you see me in person (if you ever do) - You will probably want to kill me! I'm just too dangerous!!

There’s only content in a text. Non verbal in a text would be an image like an emoticon, or a sound file without words in it, etc... which is also content. Just as you claim I’m being aggressive, yet this is text so there’s no way of knowing that unless I state it... and even then you’d have to assume I was telling the truth. In fact I was being condescending. This dovetails perfectly to prove my point. Thanks for setting yourself up.


Peace,

kowalski