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What’s your best advice for this chap?

https://youtu.be/1n5nOEJtrYA


Peace,

kowalski

A make over and help with confidence and self esteem.

Yeah, long term coaching and/or counselling in accordance with makeover. Would say better workout but that's an even longer term thing.

However, that video was from 2 years ago. More recent posts suggest he's with a lady friend so somewhat irrelevant now.

Turns out he got a bird. So fuck all.

You pair of numbnuts. Was you actually gonna help him otherwise? Nope. Did you really think that's what this was? That's dumb.

Its just to share ideas and learn stuff... what forums are.


Peace,

kowalski

What, what are you on about?

You ask a question "whats your best advice for this chap?"

We answered your question. No one mentioned actually giving him advice, it was what advice WOULD be given, and thats the advice I would give him.

Its just to share ideas and learn stuff... what forums are. You said, thats what we are doing, but guess you missed the point.

You did. So, that was obviously not in reference to you.


Peace,

kowalski

Alright smartarse.

I didn't watch the vid as it's about 25 mins, more about 2 mins. But almost straight away I noticed what everyone else did - he looks like a total and utter gimp.

But with that said, his dress sense is unironically not that bad (if he knows that or not). Would go down well with an art school crowd.

He obviously has severe confidence issues. But i'd suggest he try and de-gimpify himself by the following -

*Sort out hair and change glasses to contacts
*Skin care
*Start working out to raise test levels and improve confidence
*Dress sense is actually pretty dope so stick with it
*Take up a social hobby or uni group - like drama class or something

He has a potential female audience, like I said - super liberal art school kids or nerdy bitchs.

Despite all that, he has literally got a bird so fair play to him. Just goes to show with a bit of determination and not 'giving up' any cunt can get a lady.

My advice is more or less the same.

I think he should do what he can about his looks that isn't too invasive or costly (orthodontics, contact lenses), it doesn't seem like he can grow facial hair which would help too.

Sleep at night, be awake during the day, avoid edible nonfood, go outside, move heavy things to failure with progressive overload all with the aim of reducing depression, boosting confidence and increasing physical attractiveness and, when big enough, adding protector status.

Nurture his hobbies and skills and add new ones. He seems somewhat disinterested, having interests and pursuing them in general is attractive and in the right environments those skills are immediately attractive.

Then I'd add don't use dating apps being that they are so looks based... and also because it sounds like they are adding to his negativity He'll definitely do better in person and specifically in hobby / interest groups or if online also in niche online environments where dating opportunities are not the only reason to be there.

If he wants to be smashing a long line of hotties though then he needs something like fame or have silly money and flaunt it, or be in the upper echelon of some skill so that there are groupies around etc. But doesn't sound like that's his goal.


Peace,

kowalski

Yep I like this, so true and also the advice to stay off interweb dating.