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Morgan 23-11-2010 10:38 AM

A few questions
 
Okay, I've reached the point where I can relaibly open. I can usually lock-in, and I can't remember the last time when I came home without at least one number I was proud to get.

But I'm not perfect.

I struggle with:
K and F closing and Text Game most of all right now. I think what I need to hear from you fine gentlemen of this forum is how to transfer a point of comfort to a point of attraction, and then how to pull the trigger and get the same night close. That, and how to write good texts that help me get day2s, rather than hinder me.

But that's not enough for me, I also need to know what the core principles underneath any routines or techniques I'm recommended are, so that when I begin to understand them I can stop using the canned material and become natural. This is what I've done for opening, lock-ins, and number closing.

Help Wanted!

Phil 23-11-2010 10:45 AM

coz ur too busy tryin to be clever & thinkin instead of putting ur intentions clearly

i hope you know... that at some point ... im going to fuck you like u have never been fucked....

Maxemillion 23-11-2010 01:19 PM

THe core principles are similar to sales technique, core confidence. You can walk up and say 'My name's SickFace and I have JUST trodden in dog mess' and if you say it right (Cocky funny) with a grin and holding relaxed eye contact it will be interesting, amusing and mysterious.

In my opinion as soon as you approach they are thinking 'this guy is probably here to try and bone me' most guys will kind of deny this as they speak 'oh I'm just being friendly.' But if you convey 'I know how to play, I know what women need from a guy' instead, you get a lot more of a chance from them to sell yourself enough to make a solid bond. (and shag them).

The best form of PUAistry is when you are so confident from previous successes that you can forget all the psychological sociological concepts involved in human interaction and call them all bollocks. Then you've made it to natural alpha state.

The most important aspect is being relaxed and comfortable with yourself. I found the concept of separating ego and self esteem very helpful. Self esteem is core, it has no reasoning. Its how good and centred and happy you feel as a young young child by default. Remember it and you feel it again. Then you can see your ego as a separate thing that you built yourself based on your perceived social status.

The ego is supposed to protect us but also limits our actions. In your face Phil. Lol

themaxx 23-11-2010 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 30502)
Focus on one thing at a time. You can get numbers, you know that now. From her on the ONLY thing you should be doing is K closing. Forget "technique" just go for it and you will figure it out yourself.

Jaz is exactly right. keep trying to K close - doesn't matter if you mess it up, just try it over and over again until you get good at it.

Morgan 23-11-2010 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 30502)
Focus on one thing at a time. You can get numbers, you know that now. From her on the ONLY thing you should be doing is K closing. Forget "technique" just go for it and you will figure it out yourself.

I thought that might be the response. I'll take a risk next time I get in set.

crimsonred 25-11-2010 06:16 AM

start flirting with a girl with the sole intention of just messing around with her/flirting. don't have goals in your head. this way, youll be more relaxed, and hopefully more witty/funny.
after you get her to laugh, you can get her to do anything, like telling her to txt you her name!


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