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Thumbs up Guys I'm in terrible trouble...need some advice - 23-07-2020, 11:14 PM

Thanks for all the support guys. As someone said, this is too dangerous to leave this post explaining the situation in detail here, so I've removed it.

I was just shocked at what happened and how quickly people whom I new (at least superficially) for years turned against me based on hearsay.

It's tricky living in a small area, I think even approaching around here and running day game made me feel hopeless and effected my mood. You forget there is a world out there with other people than in that town.

The reason for the videos was to show the difference between approaching in my area compared to approaching elsewhere. Things got a bit weird when I started using them to wind up Reddit and started putting creepy subtitles which some local idiots with IQs under 80 took seriously.

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Default 24-07-2020, 08:17 AM

I'd honestly feel uncomfortable giving any advice or thoughts at this point for fear of doing harm or making things worse.

Honestly, you really should speak to a mental health professional for advice at this point. Book an appointment with your GP and tell them what's been going on. Don't omit or downplay things when you do. Given the circumstances, they should be able to arrange for you to speak to a counsellor sooner rather than later.


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Default 27-07-2020, 02:03 PM

Take Stein's advice
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Default 29-07-2020, 04:10 AM

Hi man.
I'm so sorry to hear it happened to you.

First of all I just want you to realise that people are vicious in general. Have you actually noticed that society isn't inclined to treat well it's particular members who stick out of the crowd a little bit?

I know that it may seem daft at first glance but have you thought about moving to another town/place?
It would be like pushing reset button for you m8.

I did something similar in the past (it was love letter to one of the chicks that I had crush on). Somehow it went public and all if my friends could see it.
Some of them were calling me a "fucking psycho".
This was painful as fuck but I used this hatered and pain as a driving force to achieve my goals in live.

I hope everything is going to end up ok for you man!
Take care!
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Default 02-08-2020, 12:28 AM

Hi, my quick thoughts on this strange and really difficult situation.
1. I don't know your YT channel, but after reading your post I think you are too vulnerable/sensitive (especially now) to post anything like this online. It's not good for you.
2. See the counsellor - definitely.
3. Forget about your "friends". They don't seem to be your friends, but just people who you know.
4. I know this might be difficult - but being in your situation - I would try to learn as much as possible from it, move to different town and don't make these mistakes again. Just look at your game, maybe there is something not right in it, I don't know. So take a break, go somewhere for a week, two, think logically what really went wrong, go back home stronger & consider moving out of this town. Sorry for suggesting an escape, but I don't think sticking with this place will work for you.

All the best.
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Default 02-08-2020, 09:27 AM

Who gives a fuck what some people think about you. There's a world of 8 billion people. Just take what you learned and move out of town and go somewhere else. There's hundreds of boxing gyms and millions of women. Just move to a different city instead of a town where there are like over 250,000 people and start your life from zero it will be difficult but it's worth the hard work and the journey. Also, the kinds of people on Reddit and Facebook are the type to "cancel you" so fuck em. Just do approaches for your own personal life don't do it for external BS where people will make your life difficult and get you hurt or locked up. You already proven your balls by approaching women and sparing guys. Take what you learned and move on to bigger and better things and live life freely rather than in fear. Those losers in your town are in a small bubble and they're trying to police you to be a sheep like everyone else in your town. Not approaching women sober but getting hammered and sleeping with 4s on the weekend. Focus on your life.
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Default 02-08-2020, 11:17 AM

Thanks to everyone for they're support. I didn't expect it and got expected to get made fun of seriously.

But as it turns out the people on this site were better than the people I knew in real life.

I have been referred for psychiatric assessment by mental health services.

Feel free to ask me any questions about what happened, now I've erased the original post it might be a bit confusing.

Edit: I've still got to carry a knife around with me for self protection as I don't know what the people look like who have threatened me and I'd rather have it and not need it than need it and not have it.

Edit: Had a quick look at a few comments on a local facebook group about my activities...people acting like they are in danger just from me talking to them and warning they're friends and families...wtf.

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Default 02-08-2020, 05:29 PM

Well, you're mostly at fault for what transpired. You weren't interested in listening to the advice people were giving you. You didn't care about how your channel was being interpreted, and just acted like an attention whore.

You could've made a channel that had a much more positive and inspiring message, but no, you purposively marketed yourself like you were the next Buffalo Bill. Anyway, damage has already been done, and I hope you become a lot wiser.

Just lay low for a few months, get yourself a buzz cut and clean shave, and try to come back a new man. Avoid all the red/black/blue pill shit, and start getting into more spiritually uplifting material.
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Default 02-08-2020, 08:29 PM

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Well, you're mostly at fault for what transpired. You weren't interested in listening to the advice people were giving you. You didn't care about how your channel was being interpreted, and just acted like an attention whore.

You could've made a channel that had a much more positive and inspiring message, but no, you purposively marketed yourself like you were the next Buffalo Bill. Anyway, damage has already been done, and I hope you become a lot wiser.
Let me explain what happened.

My subtitles were genuine in the first few videos. Then Reddit got hold of my videos and every time they made a thread on it I enjoyed all the negative attention I was getting when I read the comments thread.

So then I modified the subtitles to be more and more outrageous with each video.

And, unfortunately, the video with the most outrageous "predatory" subtitles got posted to the local facebook group my some jumped up Redditor who wanted to feel important.

Generally I didn't care about how my channel was being interpreted by people non local. The majority of my audience was from North America until fairly recently.
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