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Danny1988 29-05-2020 06:31 PM

Advice needed
 
Hi Guys,

Used to view this site years ago in my early 20s but finally made an account as there is an issue I’m having with someone I’ve been seeing for 5 months or so now.

Essentially met on a dating app, first was casual sleeping with each other, got a bit serious and now not in a relationship but not seeing anyone else.

She’s a strange character. Very hot yet quiet at times with me having to lead every conversation none stop which can be draining. She’s also extremely hard to to read and can come across extremely cold. I’m not some low self self esteem beta guy needing constant reinforcements but in almost 6 months I’ve never receiving anything resembling a physical compliment, which after half a year you pick up on but can easily accept if she’s been like that with everyone.

However had a big argument last 2 weeks ago and had no communication almost a week. Made up last weekend, she said she needed space still which pissed me off as she instigated the original argument and I find the whole ‘needing space’ things bollocks.

Yet we were still communicating and Tuesday night called her around 9ish she didn’t answer, this is bizarre as it’s never happened before in 6 months as she was made redundant in Feb, moved back with her parents and spends her evenings bored in her room waiting for me to call, got a random message back at almost 12 saying she went to see her gran(who has 2 on call carers) as her parents were both pissed, thought a little odd but let it go.
On Wednesday she secretly came round to my home and left some a gift she’d made for me (she’s a designer, doll of my dog) but didn’t let me see her and had a brief conversation on the phone afterwards where the first thing she said not to call that night as she’s FaceTiming her friends which she never normally does on a weeknight. Sent her a message of the doll with the dog and a thankful text, ignored.

Anyway tried to call her last night to thank her properly for the gift, ignored the call which the only ever had time she had ever done before the other night when she claimed she was visiting her sick gran. I WhatsApped thanking her for the gift and asking if we’re cool now at about 9ish. Never went online and never called back. I WhatsApp her off my work phone so have noticed today she’s not even been arsed to open the WhatsApp message and I’ll admit I did a bitchy move and checked out her profile and saw her online multiple times but still could even be arsed to open a message of someone. I find that sort of thing taking the piss and not the sort of crap I’ll tolerate of anyone.

So 2 questions. 1 this new thing that’s never occurred before, her suddenly being uncontactable in the evenings for first time in 6 months just 1 week after we had a major argument where she could easily have got in touch with someone she was seeing before, i find it suspicious behaviour, I’ve cheated before and can recognise the signs. So question is should I just thing this a coincidence, confront her or is the evidence too flimsy where I’ll look like a needy paranoid bitch? ...we all recognise the signs though when someone starts acting a little differently no?
Or
B if this is all related to her needing space shall I just ignore her back or confront her for her rude and frankly cuntish behaviour as she’s acting like a complete bitch acting on her terms.

Any advice is appreciated, being pecking my head all day. Shit like this drives you mad with lockdown and no escape and to make a confession I was mid cycle when lock down happened and whenever you come off tren quickly it can fuck with your head so that’s adding to it

VibeSpreader 22-06-2020 01:27 AM

This is your only post so I'm going to need confirmation you're still awaiting a response/there's not another long-ass update, before reading it.

Dres1990 05-07-2020 06:36 AM

Not a vet - but I would chill and pull back a bit. You don't state what the argument was about but give it time and take it easy - it's only been one week. Bitches hate/love it when we aren't reacting to their games.


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