Need advice for someone who seems to be pulling away
 

So right before this plague hit and we all got told to stay home I was starting to get some attraction with a girl at my office. We had gone out to lunch a few times and flirting was constant. I could tell she was into me as much as I was into her. Before things could advance the plague hit and we have been following stay home order since. Which means we never got to have a proper date.

We started texting and she told me straight she liked me and would like to see where things went. As always in the beginning it was a lot of texting, sending a lot of pictures and talking but never could meet in person because of the lockdown.

This has been going on for a few weeks and there is still no sign of the stay at home easing up. Lately she seems to be pulling away and not really texting much anymore or making an effort. I know normally that means i should do the same as well and stop making an effort.

Is this the best way to go about it? Should i pull away as well and wait to see if she comes back? Or should i just lay it out that kind of behavior is unacceptable and move on if she doesnt commit?

Tough with the lockdown to do other stuff and try to see other girls since kind of stuck at home until the country opens up.

You guys haven’t even kissed and you are talking about commitment. That’s way too intense, you’re getting ahead of yourself. Why are you trying to control her? Just let her quarantine in peace, kid. And you try to do the same; focus on yourself and your current surroundings.

Plus, unless it is to arrange to meet in the next 5 days with the intention of fucking, there is rarely a good reason to be communicating with non-family member single girls by text, lockdown or no lockdown.


Peace,

kowalski

By pictures, do you mean n00ds? Right now she's either not feeling you or got a lockdown bang sorted, either way you should be on2danext1 for a whileleast, if not for good. Don't shit where you eat etc etc.