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Angry "build yourself up so that women are attracted to you in your 30s" - 27-01-2020, 05:32 PM

Something that many a shy introvert including myself was told when I was 18, back in 2008.

Now I have hit my 30s:

"A 30+ year old man trying to date an 18 year old girl!? Disgusting paedophile"

So what is the point of having your success in your 30s if it is frowned upon to get with young women? Note, you could replace 18 with just about any age up to 25, but that illustrates the most extreme scenario.
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Default 27-01-2020, 05:39 PM

Who told you it was wrong to date younger ladies in your 30s?

I'm 34, and I might have a 21 year old coming to stay over this weekend.

I don't give a fuck who knows it.

Because it's my life, her life, and we're both adults.


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Default 27-01-2020, 05:48 PM

You didnít build yourself up though either, you failure.


Peace,

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Angry 27-01-2020, 05:59 PM

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Who told you it was wrong to date younger ladies in your 30s?

I'm 34, and I might have a 21 year old coming to stay over this weekend.

I don't give a fuck who knows it.

Because it's my life, her life, and we're both adults.
This thread will tell you all you need to know. But you will cite the "creepy" context of the situation as the reason, rather than the age gap.

https://www.puaforums.co.uk/general-...h-student.html

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Hello community.

I also work as a private math tutor. I give private math lessons at my clients' place. There is a student that I feel she likes me. How do I seduce her?

More info: she is 18 years old, I teach her in the first floor of their house, in a dining room. There is no one else present in the room. I come to their place once a week. I am afraid of losing the client... e.g. telling her after the class : "I like you. Can I invite you to a cinema?" and her parents could cancel the classes...

Thank you for any useful ideas.

Greetings, whitewind
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Hold up. Everything on hold for a sec. How old are you?

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It's so wrong in so many ways. It's kind of Sun newspaper story unfolding in front of us

Now it's sounds like she just playing you to for fill her own fantasy. 33 year old guy seduces 18 year math student. yeah try to explain that to her parents ...

I'm sure it's one night stand might be 2 night .... how big is the city you live in?

just to be clear you wanna date her not just fuck once? right.
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Yeah, this is mad weird. I was assuming you'd be like 22 or something, you should seriously not be hitting on an 18 year old student at 33. Like seriously, check yourself and try dating people closer to your age.

Not much else to be said at this point tbh.


But carry on thinking there isn't a war against men once they've finally achieved all they are supposed to achieve and reached they're 30s they are seen as predators for going for young women.


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You didnít build yourself up though either, you failure.


Peace,

kowalski
I agree I'm a failure, why do you think I hate myself so much!? And lash out at people.

I never had a life when I was a youngster, now when I want to build one and make up for lost memories, society wants to judge me harshly!?

And discriminate against me based on age!?

If an 18 year old girl likes me, society wants me in prison if I go with that. Hell, the AOC is even 16 in this country (but not age of majority), but the societal AOC seems to be dependent based upon your age.

I cut through the bullshit that's why I get a hard time.
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Default 27-01-2020, 08:48 PM

Like it or not, the context is key to the situation you're talking about. Context s always key, and the fact you're too dumb to acknowledge that doesn't mean you're cutting through bullshit, it means you're too socially inept to understand their implications.

Oh, and

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If an 18 year old girl likes me, society wants me in prison if I go with that.
No one likes you.


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Default 27-01-2020, 08:54 PM

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Like it or not, the context is key to the situation you're talking about. Context s always key, and the fact you're too dumb to acknowledge that doesn't mean you're cutting through bullshit, it means you're too socially inept to understand their implications.

Oh, and



No one likes you.
At the end of the day, if I human man and a human woman want to get together then as long as they're overaged it shouldn't matter.

I'm not dumb. I like to separate things out. It is a logical way of working.

I'm age insecure, because I started late. I know I'm unlikely to get a young girl, but if an opportunity did present itself people would want me to "do the right thing" that being, not try to make her my girlfriend, even if she wanted to be.
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Default 27-01-2020, 09:00 PM

k bro. sweet you came back for that fucking gem.


ďAs to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.Ē - Emerson
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Default 28-01-2020, 06:59 PM

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...you will cite the "creepy" context of the situation as the reason, rather than the age gap.
That's because the age gap is not the problem, the creepy context is.

In the same way that your daygame has a creepy context.


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Default 28-01-2020, 08:54 PM

This is pathetic. You have an excuse for everything.

How can you pretend to attract somebody when you don't have a way to subsist? When you don't have the basic needs of the piramid assured? Where are you attracting them, to an empty pit? You need to valuate yourself and love you first.

Not doing it is like if a customer comes to your restaurant and you serve him something from the bin pretending him to love it. Something you gag at.

It's pathetic that when somebody tells you that what you have to offer is shit, you moan about it, you pretend to be a man turning violent, and you have an excuse for fucking EVERYTHING. Seriously you look like a pathetic restaurant owner in front of Gordon Ramsay.

It's more, in the middle of all that nonsense, instead of looking for a job, a proper house next to girls gathering areas, training and improving your look style, cultivating yourself with hobbies and ADULT LIFE GOALS, you look for the magic spice which is going to make your shit delicious.

You come to a random people forum to moan, threat and insult strangers. Strangers that could help you. You run with a bike around until police has to stop you. You get fucking kicked out even from tinder, Badoo here twice and I'm sure they banned you from Peppa Pig online Club and any place you could write and leave a comment.

I get it, life is hard, blah blah blah, you had a really bad destiny, and so. But if you have time and energy to be here leaving 20 comments saying "Cunt", which is half pathetic half nuts, and money, as you say you're going regularly into prostitutes, hence my question: why on earth you don't apply all those resources on getting a life which at least, is not pathetic, starting for GETTING A FUCKING JOB?

And I'm not talking about miserable, I know you think you're miserable. I know people who have a miserable life, they don't have food sometimes and no heating, and even them are getting more pussy than you. Without bike.
You are not miserable, you are pathetic.

You want advice from people with more success than you, with women and in life? Here it is: put your shit together. Find a Job.

PS: Believe me I tried to be soft here with you, after you threatened me on private with coming here to my house and killing me. If you want a harder version of this, you should know what those prostitutes you want to seduce, pfff, sorry... really think about you.


Meaow!

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