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Default 18-02-2021, 09:21 PM

Great reading all these replies. I feel for the OP as I've been through a similar experience.

Firstly, I always assume that you are putting yourself first? That means fitness, fashion, cultured, career, etc. Otherwise you are just swimming around the bottom of the barrel and you will never met that perfect girl. And if you do, you are just lucky and she will drop you when she meets someone who does put themself first.

Personally, white girls don't interest me, as another person said, they can be pretty but y toxic feminist bullshit that even when proved wrong, they won't believe it. Thankfully, women are getting tired of this shit and smart girls don't call themselves feminists anymore. I always test them in the first 30 minutes of date to test the water.

But why english girls?? white pasty skin is just yuck! Olive skinned latinas are so friendly, sexy and hot. Why?? Seriously, I see that as your major problem, no offense

Personally, like the previous poster mentioned, I like Oriental girls. I'll give you an example why. Same test, different results. I ask an english girl whats she's up to, she says 'going food shopping', I say cheekily 'so what you gonna cook me'. Game over. Same thing with a Chinese girls (given, there was more attraction and i spoke to her longer) and she was falling over herself with ideas of what she would cook for me (but I would probably have to buy the ingredients, these mainlanders are smart!).

Aaanyway, daygame is where it at. If you think it's creepy then you need to stop being paranoid, or maybe you are not ready mentally? A LOT of girls love being stopped if the guy is their type (or now, even close!) For the girls that reject you, think karma, if you are decent guy then this girls is picky. She is doomed to marry a Chad who will bow to her frame and get beta'd. Daygame (in places of high value) and social circles are the best way to meet quality women (inc. white girls).

Also, I think right now, even me sometimes, we are doom thinking because we can't get out there. But this will pass, stay strong, put yourself first and work on yourself. Because seriously, when the smoke clears and you are stopping that 8 with your fit body/clean haircut/tight henley tshirt/big smile, she is going to want to talk to you. All the tubby, dating app reliant fucktards will be crying into their bag of maltesers. It's going to be awesome.
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Default 18-02-2021, 10:31 PM

Absolutely agree with you. That fake posh english accent. Can't. Just. can't.

I met this Chinese girl on the street in Notting Hill once. I'm probably remembering it with a bit of bias but she was like an angel in a sea of trolls. 5'4'', yellow summer dress, long long black hair, pink vans. I swear, if I didn't talk to her I would have died. She spoke very little english, we talked through app. She was just happy on the inside (which was all the more strange as her life was actually quite tragic) and she glowed. I call her my angel. She was really girly which was such a turn on. Best BJ in my life, seriously. But she went back to China, cannot wait till she gets back later this year.

I speak Japanese so asian culture interests me. I learnt so much from her (that Mandarin is hard for a start). Compared to 90% of western girls I've meet, she destroys them all. All 165cm of her.

The painful thing I realized is that you HAVE TO speak their language if you ever want to marry. Otherwise there is a very small chance of success. So that's why I go for Canto chinese/philos/thai/singaporean/shanghai girls as they usually speak amazing english.

But, yeah, I'm glad I see through this feminist bullshit now (datascience ftw!) and ignore these brainwashed twats.

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I enjoy oriental women because I feel like I’m part of something when I date them and it feels right. At school and uni I was stuck with these feminist girls that were directionless and going nowhere in life and blaming the “patriarchy” at every point . In the end I decided I’ll either be with a feminine woman or alone. When you’re with truly feminine girls you realise how much white trash there is out there and how directionless and harmful these women can be. Daygame gives you more chances to really connect with truly feminine individuals and to break free of directionless women off dating apps and toxic social circles.

The west is fucked from a cultural stand point , I’ve found women I’ve dated from the west to be extremely left wing , complaining none stop on their Instagram stories and chatting nonsense shit without a real broad scale viewpoint of the world. Whereas with conservative Asian women I’m given a decent chance to lead without fear that I’ll insult them or get major retaliation for it. If there’s no feminity now I don’t see the relationship as worth it. There’s honestly nothing more offputting to me now than the English accent.
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Default 19-02-2021, 09:57 AM

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Aaanyway, daygame is where it at. If you think it's creepy then you need to stop being paranoid, or maybe you are not ready mentally? A LOT of girls love being stopped if the guy is their type (or now, even close!) For the girls that reject you, think karma, if you are decent guy then this girls is picky. She is doomed to marry a Chad who will bow to her frame and get beta'd. Daygame (in places of high value) and social circles are the best way to meet quality women (inc. white girls).
Yeah "in places of high value" is the part which is polarising. Women don't like it when nervous dudes or retarded-looking guys approach them. Been there myself (my mood fluctuates a lot), as well as just looking at the videos from First Person Approacher where his anxiety clearly sabotages any hope of getting a good result.

But... every guy has to start somewhere.


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Default 19-02-2021, 11:59 AM

This is why you need to start with yourself first. You need to value yourself so that every girl is perceived is at least a medium value. She has to prove herself to you. If you are a shmuck and you know it then it doesn't matter how many girls you talk to, you will always feel inferior and nervous. Brute forcing it just will not work. Be. Better.

I found out pretty quickly about this mindset, by accident actually. As part of building myself up I visit museums, art galleries, etc as I'm in the entertainment industry. I do this anyway. One day, I was in a museum and had this idea. I did the idea and it has worked like a charm to meet the type of girls I like. Basically smart non-white girls who dig art and are feminine. These girls are smart and interesting. I'll give an example because stories are inspiring and I want to give you guys an example of meeting high value girls in high value areas.

I was in a museum and saw this girl. Chinese, westernised (but not too much), herringbone midi/white shirt/flats (learn about fashion guys, it's easy), tall (170cm), slim, shoulder length black hair DING DING!. She was in a paid exhibition so that tells me she's really into it. I didn't know much about the exhibition so was looking for a guide. So, I get her to notice me (one of the only guys in there so not hard), then I start chatting with some older ladies to get some social cred. I can tell she notices me as at one point she's standing right behind me and I almost bump into her as I turn around. I pretend I am noticing her for the first time and give her eye contact and a smile. We spend the next 10 minutes chasing each other. I compliment another girl on her hairstyle (50's style bob) and chat for a bit. Then I just walk over to her and say 'Hi. I just wanted to say Hi I really like your style...' And the rest is history.

Why am I telling you this? I want you to ignore English girls. Yes, fuck them if that's your thing but they are abundant in the UK, not special at all. Girls who come here from another country are brave. Could you do that? Move to another country? Alone? Learn a new language? It's hard. If you have, then dude, you are a brave motherfucker who deserves better than average pussy.

Also, you see how I knew about fashion? I did this because I like fashion and also because I like girls who like fashion (she was a fashion journalist). I purposely gained that knowledge to better myself and to meet better girls.

If I didn't know anything about fashion, I would have looked like a fish out of water.

Hmm, this has kind of gone off topic so I'll finish with this. The OP wanted advice on how to meet English girls. Easy, Day/nightgame in London. How? Decide what type of girls you like and learn about what they like (art, music, film, books, etc). I assume because you like girls who like these subjects that you are also interested in these subjects, so learn about them. Then, put your Sherlock hat on, light up the pipe and figure out where these girls are. Summers coming so do it now. My list is:

- Cafes in museum
- Museum exhibitions
- Art galleries (esp. private viewings)
- Book readings (for books I have read, authors I like)
- College areas
- Department stores (food court in Selfridges)
- Bars in hip areas (Shoreditch, Angel, Deptford, etc)
- High streets (Kings road is great in Summer, also Primrose Hill for park pick up)

I'd encourage you to learn about fashion as there's nothing like approaching a girl authentically and saying 'I love your style, nobody dresses like that anymore'. or 'I love it when a girl wears a maxi, it means you have great legs but are shy'. Just as you have bettered yourself, she has too by considering her fashion. She does that to visual shit test all the men who complement her. Be that special guy who knows what he is talking about.

Anyway, hope that helps a bit.

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Yeah "in places of high value" is the part which is polarising. Women don't like it when nervous dudes or retarded-looking guys approach them. Been there myself (my mood fluctuates a lot), as well as just looking at the videos from First Person Approacher where his anxiety clearly sabotages any hope of getting a good result.

But... every guy has to start somewhere.
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Default 20-02-2021, 09:10 PM

Pm'd you. Would love to know about places in Shenzhen/Hong Kong. Will trade you places in Tokyo


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https://mindful-masculinity.org/2020...full-analysis/

Wrote down a list of all the good spots to go to in London, going to do one for China and Central Asia soon.
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Default 24-05-2021, 12:30 PM

By the way way there is an article about picking up women here in England from a couple of years ago! It seems very negative towards the PUA scene though. But that shows what English attitudes are like. Because in England it is very rare to talk to strangers of the opposite sex outside of a social setting. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...eet-harassment
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Default 28-05-2021, 02:15 PM

I think that most English girls are a lot harder to game than most foreign girls! Here in London I seem to find foreign women including Americans and Austrailians far more friendly than English women when I approach them.
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Default 28-05-2021, 03:32 PM

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in England it is very rare to talk to strangers of the opposite sex outside of a social setting.
What about in bars and pubs and clubs?


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