Follow-on seduction of a 10 - Advice Needed -
17-10-2010, 09:01 PM
Re-connected with a girl I met a couple months ago last week at a bar then we moved on to a club and had a really good time. Need advice on next steps and how to differentiate from the loads of other guys she undoubtedly has going for her.
As a precursor, some details that may help:
-Met at bar and we naturally separated from rest of group and talked for quite some time.
-Eventually we rejoined the group and I went into a lengthy conversation with her boss who was eyeing us (could see her glance in that direction when talking), so basically just left her, and she continually glanced in my direction and immediately latched back on when we re-joined the group. Accomplished a couple things, higher value (make good with the boss), i'm not just tagging on her coat-tails and will talk with anyone, wanted to test her reaction.
-On the way to the club she'd mentioned to my friend that she wanted to date me
-at the club the sexual tension was there when dancing, quite a few other guys made approaches on her, after the first she asked me to save her from them at which point i acted like her boyfriend or interrupted to say that the group was getting a drink/shot.
-We live in the same general area so took the bus back, nothing significant, didn't push it as i'm not looking for a one night stand.
-Lots of touching during the convo/dancing(obv) and took my arm on the walk back.
-got a good night text, good to see you...
-next day got a text, some back and forth about the night.. nothing major.
So clearly the attraction is there, she is leaving to go home for 2 weeks the end of this week, I've been cold the past two days (no text).
The girl is a knockout so i need advice on how to differentiate from everyone else and given the impending trip this weekend and other events i have this week i am concerned she'll reset once back and i'll have to once again reconnect. Half-thought about going completely cold only replying or starting up the texting game when she does but this could back-fire.. next weekend could meet a replacement me.
Input welcomed.
Cheers
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