Daygame: approaching targets on their lunch break

[captain_freedom]

Hi guys,

One of the challenges I've ran into quite a lot, is most of the targets I approach during the day are usually in a rush or on their lunch break.

This is probably myself to blame because I tend to find myself attracted mostly to the HBs who have good trendy dress sense and I suppose most of them would be at work because why would you put an effort in your appearance just to go out and buy some milk, food, shopping.

Anyway after I've opened (direct or indirect) sometimes I might ask what she was up to. Lately I transition with an obversation now but when I do ask this question I'll then get the response of "taking lunch break". So now I know she is in a rush (yes this could just be a rejection and her trying to get rid of me, but sometimes you have the intuition where you know she's telling the truth for example I'll noticed she's wearing a store badge HMV, boots etc

So obviously there's no point in trying to have a long conversation. Now would you say something like:

"hey you look like you're in a rush, lets catch up some other time when you're free, here punch in your number"

or do you just plough through and go for a short talk to build up some rapport then n-close.

[Loke]

You could suggest taking lunch together if you feel comfort has been built, and she is giving you IoIs. Instant dates is in my opinion the best bit about day game.

[nova]

Try some weekend day game instead / as well. No excuses for them to say they're on a lunch break then.

[captain_freedom]

It was the weekend.

I like the instant date plan Loke, sounds scary but then that would show confidents and reduce the chances of a flake.

[nova]

Stop concerning yourself with what possible excuses they could give you. They could be in a hurry at 3pm. What can you do, perhaps it's genuine. I suppose you could always try the rapid fire number close you proposed at the end of your original post.

[Loke]

I'm quite a newbie when it comes to day game, but you can usually tell if someone is busy. I hardly ever approach anyone that looks like they are stressing through a crowd to get somewhere. But look for the girls window shopping, or leisurely strolling around. Should improve your success rate a lot