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Text from an ex -
11-09-2010, 09:48 AM
Well last week I got a text from my ex asking how I was, seeing as I still think about her and have some feelings for her still I replied with a simple "great thanks". But as the week went on I started to wonder if something was wrong and thats why she contacted me. So yesterday I sent her a message saying
"Are you alright, Just had a funny feeling something was up" she replied with "Yeah im ok I guess, just a little grouchy but ok  , how are you?"(normally i wouldnt bother but knowing her when she says shes just "OK" it usually means something is up) so I said something like "That dosent sound to good, whats up?" then cracked a joke about me being an old man since my bday is next week Well anyway I havent had a reply since, shes totaly flaked on me. But what I dont know is what to do next. I know I dont want to persue her in any way but I dont want her to think that I am bothered by her freezing me out like that (which I am obv am hah), \i want to make sure I portray myself as having a higher value than her Im thinking either playfully replying insinuating shes being rude, or just say I think its cute that she is still trying to play her little games. or simply just ignore it and not bother texting her again     
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11-09-2010, 09:58 AM
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If you've got no interest in her, then you've got no interest in encouraging her to think a certain way about you. Let her come to whatever conclusions she wants to come too about you - it matters not. Nothing she thinks affects you, so you don't need to worry about it. You have other fish to fry, and probably bigger and better ones. So crack on with frying them.
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11-09-2010, 10:14 AM
I would still like her around though, I value her friendship. But im worth well more than being fronzen out by someone I was with for 2 years. Just going to ignore her I think, and maybe fuck her friends
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11-09-2010, 10:52 AM
NONONONON Do not do the value her friendship thing... i did it... u get caught up..
honestly mate... i went into the friends thing... u start thinkin about who shes with nh tha not good.... just fuck her off HONESTLY
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11-09-2010, 03:02 PM
Gotta agree with what the guys are saying. i once tried to stay close to an ex few years back and i came across as the needy begging sort.
move on with the new chase, its much more fun.
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11-09-2010, 04:01 PM
Don't text her buddy. Have already given her the satisfaction of being curious about whats wrong with her...If anything is wrong. She now has you thinking about her, which is probably what she wanted. She was probably feeling unloved by others around her and needed a quick attention fix. Leave it be and as others said, move onto bigger and better mate.
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11-09-2010, 04:09 PM
Well I didnt bother texting her again, I just deleted the number
One of my sets from last night is texting me, so atleast I have something to do
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