bootcamps
 

Hi guys,

My heads been all over the place this week and on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster generated by my own self doubt. After viewing the two channel four documentaries posted in the disscussion group, it's got me contemplating selling one of my guitars on eBay and going on one of the full weekend bootcamps to try and speed up my progression.

Have any of you guys done one? And what are your thoughts about the whole bootcamp thing as it's quite a lot of cash.

Retro

Pua trianing are doing a (free) or a round £10 bootcamp soon not sure if its all booked up just yet can have a look

it gambler's site

If you can afford 2K, do a bootcamp with Tylers Boys. I would if I could ;)
It's all about being authentic - no routines to memorize.

(Any ideas guys on how to rob banks?)

I'm just looking at what month we are in and trying to reach my goals in the time frame i want, it might not be acheivable, which is quite saddening. I've had one number close and it was one i wasn't that arsed about getting, the last time i K-closed was like june last year, and don't even ask about the other close! :( so i'm just worried about getting to where i want to be and how much needs fixing and after watching those documentaries and see the success that some of the guys on their have had, after only a weekend of coaching got me thinking about the trip down to london to do one to see what i'm doing wrong and what i'm doing right, not only in terms of what i'm saying, but what i'm not saying as well (1st impressions, body language, eye contect etc etc).

The other stuff is, some of the posts this week have scared the crap out of me, the one about 1 in 4 women cheating. It's probably the truth, but its a scary truth for a guy who wants to settle down and find the right woman. I don't think i could handle being the 1 out of the four, so really need to get awesome at being both the Alpha and the Beta to help guard against this.

Retro

Dood, remember in Varsity when I asked you if you can imagine yourself years in the future having achieved all the success in pick up that you wanted and you said you could...

If you can imagine that, then you already know who you want to be and how it feels. No boot camp required. You just give yourself reasons why you can't be that way now.

Find those reasons. Killer question for me is, "What am I avoiding." It will frighten you, it's sposed to, means you're on the right track. Get angry. Get pumped. Find those reasons that stop you.

50 approaches min per weekend? Establishing a positive relationship with myself? Trusting that I’m worthy?

Whatever it is, just stop running. Freely choose to suffer the initial fear and pain of facing whatever it is. When you can do this, surrender to it completely with no resistance at all, feel in to it and ask for more! it'll change by itself.

S'only you dood. Always has been.

Dood, thats awesome, insperational and a shit load more other stuff as well!

Thanks man.

Retro

No worries playa, just face your truth.

Sync

"Playa" <---- luv it..:D