Styles

[bushido]

sup guys when we watch or read about other puas and hw they do certain things to get girls we sometimes think about how to mimic them. For example if we watch a fellow pua go out and be high energy jumping around and being super sociable and talking to loads of girls and hitting the dance floor and when we try doing the same thing although we might know alot of material/theory when trying to be someone your not i.e. super high energy when you are naturally an introvert it may not seem natural and it can be awkward and its just not your STYLE.

I came across this article which talks about the different styles that people have, i remember a friend of mine who is quite reserved, quiet, doesnt dress the best and doesnt seem to have as much fun when out anywere when compared to me. Yet despite me having all my knowledge/ theory and high energy he would always seem to be able to get more girls. This was because he was using his own style of pu, u can guess which one he was below..I am in between and extrovert and introvert and so wen thinking i have to be high energy to get girls it didnt come across as that natural, hence i wasnt able to get the same results. With practice i will eventually find this to be natural to me but its much easier to go with your strengths.. so here is some of the different styles and you can see which one you relate to best.

Calm and Nonverbal style

These PUA's don't do a lot of talking. they let their body language lead the conversation and when spoken to, do answer in a calm and accurate flow. Behavior –wise, these guys are mainly introverts who rather approach on their own, and prefer the house parties and pubs to relax and have fun at. Women love this strong, silent type because they are seductive and mysterious. they love having the sole attention of this pua, and listen when he speaks, because it s not often that he does.

Energetic Style

These puas never put a foot down. they are always speaking and using various body-gestures to command the situation . This stems from their generous past and thus this style can be seen as a ''try hard''. When using this style, a pua must work on how to come across as not needy but rather just fun, exciting, and the life of moment. They are definitely extroverts that use that quality to make their TOI's comfortable and attracted to them.

Persuasive style

This is the style that represents most guys who are into the business-ethic of persuasion. They remain focused throughout their interactions, but if they don’t work on their style women can find most of these guys as being desperate. Once mastered, this style is very powerful because the ability to passively persuade someone into doing your desired outcome is such a great skill.

The leaders style

The main trait of these puas is their alpha male ability. they have the force to lead their group, partners, and peers, and become the main force of attraction from all women. They are usually very confident in their ability, because they have had to work up the “ranks” of their social circles and understand how they got there. This style uses the passive idea that women want the leader, or the highest-ranking male. here the pua must always assert his dominance and never fail to show his authority.

Direct style

The “direct” pua leads out their targets through straightforward and confident speech and approach. they use strong gestures and smooth body language when engaging with women, and women credit them with having the courage to get what they want by going after it. This style requires a lot of inner game and will test one's ability to speak as he thinks and do as he wants. A very difficult style to master, the direct pua does not “dance” around what he wants, but simply takes the shortest route to the prize.

Trophy style

The hardest style to master, the trophy is the style where women simply approach you. Women go after this pua because there is something about him. You give off a powerful sense of allure, and couple it with an “easy to talk to” sense, and women feel the need to have to talk to you. This style uses a lot of passive openers to become truly effective, and is certainly one of the hardest to master.


Personality

Now that you have your style figured out, you need to know your pua personalities. these are the qualities that you find best suit your character, and are the ones that are so natural, and therefore the most attractive when you approach. many “canned routines” do not teach you the science of attraction, nor teach you the single most important component to seduction; to be yourself! This is simply YOU being YOU.

DO NOT force your personality; if it s not you to be funny, then don t try to be. Forcing and imposing things upon yourself only makse you weak and unattractive to girls.

Cocky

The cocky personality knows and assures his TOI's that he is simply the best. he says this, but more importantly, shows this to his women. The cocky pua knows when not to cross over into true conceit and balances his cockiness with sparks of humility. The “wave” of brash comments and humble actions keeps the girl attracted and seduced. A cocky PUA also demonstrates he is the best, or wants to be the best by constantly working at many different tasks. Warning: Do not over-do your Cockiness tho ,it has to have limitations

Humorous

The humorous or funny pua is more than just a “gag-comedian”. He makes light of all topics, and uses various forms of humor to make his TOI drop her guards, and let him in. He knows how to play off words, create puns, tell amusing tales, and poke wit in order to truly seduce. the funny pua steals hearts through his light attitude, and his “spoon full of sugar” ideals in distress.

Athletic

This is the physically athletic personality, he does not have to be the most built, or muscular man in the room, but attracts through being active, fit and constantly working at his “personal temple”. women are always attracted to a man who loves his body enough to constantly be working on it. The athletic pua uses his many activates, such as hiking, swimming, and working out along with his confident personality to create attraction.

Mysterious

The enigmatic pua uses less to gain more. By telling his toi very little, or keeping his personal details to himself, he creates an atmosphere of attraction. He always gives the “roundabout” answer to questions, and leave his TOI's wanting more and more from him. A very hard trait to work on, becoming a mystery leaves women always wanting to be “the one” who solved the man.

Charming

Enter Prince Charming himself! To charm a girl is a PUA speciality. He does not constantly give compliments, but rather finds a well-placed moment to deliver a strong line. He is constantly making his TOI's, and everyone around, feel better about themselves and feeling special. He comes off as very pure and just and uses this to almost “enchant” his TOI into attraction.

Knowledgeable/Intelligent

Doesn't have to be an Einstein. People love someone who doesn't necessarily know it all, but more so knows a lot about different, interesting things. The knowledgeable personality is one that can give out little interesting facts, provide sound advice, and is constantly learning and researching on various topics. This pua uses his “smarts” to keep women involved in him, and to increase attraction through always being interesting and a topic of discussion.

Bad Boy

Yep. We all know this guy, though some of us think he is the scum of the earth. He breaks rules and regulations yet somehow every women on Planet Earth is WOW'ed by this guy. He has no FEAR , is RESPECTED by all those around him and basicly ''Doesnt give a shit''. Warning : This personality may get you into trouble with the law Very Happy.

Good Guy

This isn' t the dreaded “nice” guy that girls always say they won t date, but rather this is the genuine pua that gets the women because he ss so down to earth and upstanding. A personality that looks out for everyone, takes true interest into people's lives, and always is just there for them, it s no mystery to why a women is attracted to this pua.

[Flake]

That's pretty good stuff man. Definitely some sound advice there.

[Le(e) Large]

The on;Nice work man, I totally agree with everything about the different category's, but I have a slight problem... what if, someone i.e me, fits into quiet a few of the category's? And you mention mastering, although I don't believe someone can master something completely, how long does the average pua take to "master" his game?

[Lucky7]

Cool... Thats interesting! I usually change between the styles in different situations or depending on my mood.

[aofelix]

I don't get this. It just seems like a description of different personalities with PUA added to the end.

[pipsqueak]

Originally Posted by aofelix

I don't get this. It just seems like a description of different personalities with PUA added to the end.

What don't you get son?