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Default i've been ghosted - 05-08-2019, 08:31 PM

so it's a long story so will try put into a nutshell.

approached a very cute girl at work, but in a different part of building, different department. never really see her round. it actually went well.

few weeks later i saw her again, took her name so i could instant message her on work systems.

we talked, chatted, couple mini flirts so i asked her if she wants to meet. she agreed.

she cancelled me on the day, with a valid reason, and said pick a day next week and its definate.

i said fine and asked for her number, she happily, gave it me and told me to text her as soon as i can (this was friday).

i text her yesterday evening asking if she free on thursday, and never got a response. i then sent her an instant message at work today, but didn't refer to the text. still no response.

this looks like i've been ghosted, doesn;t it ???

feels horrible, as i dont really know what could have changed over the weekend to change her mind. i feel confused.
does anyone know what i might have done wrong?

so has this happened to anyone else?? what do you do about it?

feel free to share your stories.

cheers.
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Default 07-08-2019, 02:45 PM

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so has this happened to anyone else?? what do you do about it?
Pick yourself up and keep on truckin'

There are 1000s of reasons she stopped responding:
Maybe she was kinda seeing somebody else and it got serious
Maybe she decided that she's going to take some time out of the dating scene
Maybe she responded because things were rocky with her bf and then they sorted stuff out
Maybe it was something that you said

Lots of maybes that you more often than not have nothing to do with. If I think about times I've dropped girls prior to meeting, it's been more about the shit in my life than them - too busy with other stuff, not feeling great (though sometimes it is because I've seen a red flag).

Find your next bed warmer or Mrs Kerplunk or whomever it is you're looking for!


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Default 10-08-2019, 09:19 AM

cheers mate... def feeling bit better about it... just didn't understand what had happened, still don't, but as you say... move on.
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