Approach anxiety
 

Yo guys whats up,

I know this is a common shit "waaa I cant approach da bitchesss" I know I know, but seriously it's fucking annoying.

My strengths so far are keeping the morale high for myself and others if I'm with my boys trying to do night game, I'm also usually approaching in bars and clubs.

What I'm shite at is daygame, back in January, I made like 8 cold approaches, but now it's so fucking hard. I'm literally wasting 20+ hrs on gas and time to wonder around like an idiot and not talk to one girl these days.

You guys got any tips? I've found talking to random strangers, like spudding ppl or asking groups what the time is as my watch broke makes me feel better, but I don't wanna do this shit with the fitties cause 1 I feel I'm wasting time I just wanna do some direct approaches tbh, and 2 it's fucking obvious I stopped a hot girl cause she's hot, not for the damn time which makes me seem like a pussio.

Any advice?

it never goes away mate... but i think best advice i was given is do first approach as quick as you can, otherwise longer you leave it then harder it becomes. but, it's still easier said than done, and i;m sure others on this forum will give better advice.

Yeah true say bro, at the end of the day, there may be no method or ritual, it's literally as simple as "WE DO IT" or "We Bail".. so we'll just have to do the unthinkable and fucking do it

Accept the awkwardness. As soon as you leave your house or have parked, speak to someone. Anyone. Ask the time to some guys or girls. Then a follow up question or a funny remark. Keep doing this for a bit to build confidence. Sit in a coffee shop and comment on what someone is drinking. Build it up and hopefully it will get easier

Thanks for your advice man, I recently found a wing in my area and I'm doing more approaches than ever before, well happy, I feel alive like this is how men are sposed to live!

I've found walking close to the girl or just saying hi to her is a good warm up for me to it