How to not be insecure and unconfident about penis size?
 

Im a normal guy infact im better than normal but still have a penis that falls into the average range more or less.

There are guys out there with much larger hogs and just better hogs for giving her pleasure.

This is a brutal area for me if I know or suspect another man is better than me in that department it makes me very insecure unconfident and psyched out.

How can you be confident when you know objectively your penis is inferior to other mens penis? How is it even possible its like being confident about a race youve entered when you are definitely not the fastest guy you are about the middle guy. It seems totally irrational to be confident because im NOT awesome down there.

How do I solve this problem with women attractiveness/confidence/insecurity and ability in bed?

In your words, you mention you fall in the 'average' category, so why worry

personally think that you are looking at the wrong place to find confidence. you should be confident from the inside about who/what you are and can be. A confident man couldnt give a fuck about what the rest is doing let alone if they are better/bigger in any other aspect.

grow your confidence not your penis

You're gunna psychologically give yourself impotence the way you're going.

My dick is decent, but I'm not Lex Luther either. Yet girls tell me I'm the best they've ever had, and I know they ain't lying.

Having a bigger dick doesn't make you a better lover.

It's knowing how to use it that matters.

Have you been with many girls? I only spent anytime thinking about whether my dick was alright size wise before getting laid. Once I'd fucked the first time and she enjoyed it enough to want to fuck me again in the future, I never even thought about it anymore.

As for what race you've entered when you start chatting girls, it's a race you win when you fuck whichever girl you are chatting. Dick size is irrelevant, she usually won't even usually get to see it till that point. Except for the rare situation where a girl wanders up and says "Hey you two, get your dicks out because I'm gonna fuck the bigger one"... that's so extremely rare and such a girl would probably fuck you both.

Also, don't read Freud.


Peace,

kowalski