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Default my trip to London - day gaming - 01-07-2019, 04:47 PM

hello guys,

so i have just been to London this weekend. On Saturday i tried to do a bit of day time approaching, and also some night time too. This thread will focus on day time.

this is probably my 4th or 5th time where i have been to London to try this in the last year... (not yet done so in my home town, apart from odd sporadic approaches).

i had a wing with me, who is more experienced, and been doing this for a few years. he would try and encourage me to go in.

so here goes.

when i arrived at station and met my friend, i got my first in very quickly, within a minute. it was a girl who was also waiting. just did a quick compliment and got out, just to loosen up. her reaction was like of surprise.

now it was 33 degrees, so many hot girls about, but for a guy it is uncomfortable when you start getting sweaty etc.

anyway, in total i did probably around 7 or 8 approaches over around 4 hours, and all girls were alone. it was not easy. but here is my sticking point:

I could open with a compliment... usually, "excuse me, i just want to say i think you look nice".... they say "thank you", but then either walk off, keep walking, or just give me the impression that they think i am weird. So basically, I didn;t really get any good conversations going.

this was definitely the most approaches i have done in a day, and if nothing else, i think my main achievement was not letting it faze me when i got "rejected".... (previously i probably would have given up).

If anyone can advise if my opener is bad, please let me know. some feedback i got was... still to use that line, but add "and i therefore wanted to come over and say hi"......

and any tips on how to transition to conversation too...

also, this may be an excuse but it appears in most cities, but especially London, everybody is in such a hurry they don't really want to stop and chat to a stranger.

i do hope some of you read this to the end, and are able to give me feedback, plus any further tips.

i might do a separate post on the night approaches later.

thank you.

Last edited by kerplunk; 01-07-2019 at 04:49 PM. Reason: spelling error
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Default 13-07-2019, 07:24 AM

thanks for the feedback
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