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Default approach high to outcome low - 25-03-2019, 09:32 PM

So guys, i really want to get feedback, opinions, has this ever happened to you etc from you, note i am a relative beginner.

So I approached a girl this morning at the bus stop and had what i thought was my first solid daygame interaction with a girl, during the approach and bus journey...

As I was about to get off the bus I asked her for her Facebook as thought it was easier and softer than asking for her number... she gave it me it and accepted it on the spot too. I got off the bus feeling really pleased with myself.

I checked out a few of her pictures as I got into work. But, an hour or so later I went to look her up again as I was thinking of sending a message to her on Messenger, and it appears she had blocked me already as I could not find her profile anywhere.

So anyway, I was really quite upset about this. How could I have such a good interaction with a girl, yet she then does this ? This has been my thoughts all day.

Can anyone tell me if they've had experiences like this, is this just part of the process ?? How can I make myself feel better about all of this.

Any constructive feedback or helpful ideas will be much appreciated. Thank you in advance.
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Default 25-03-2019, 11:47 PM

"It was easier and softer than asking for her number" that's where you went wrong, you should've just asked for her number, that would've given you more of an indication if she did actually like you, or just liked the attention you gave her. Never take her Instagram or Facebook details you're not her fan boy, always go for the number.

Did you make your intentions plain? Was there any sexual tension or was it just friendly chit chat? You can make yourself feel better by going out there and doing more approaches and trying to get numbers. Trial and error that's the only way to learn.
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Default 01-04-2019, 07:58 PM

hi mate thanks for your response.
i think you are right.... it could have just been chit chat etc.
might be bit awkward if i see her on the bus again, but i can just try act normal.
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Default 01-04-2019, 11:36 PM

Hi kerlpunk. That happens. Some girls are just playing with us. One girl gave me a number in the nightclub and I call her couple of days afterwards and she tells me that she is already going to a date with somebody that she met also in that club, and smiles at me. Don't feel bad, it is a success, but you always go for a number, you can get her for date over facebook only if you have a really good profile and that's also maybe. It is either number or nothing I say to myself always. Five or ten numbers like this and you have a date...

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Default 02-04-2019, 08:31 PM

thanks for the comments... i'm pretty much over this one now, and def will take your advice about asking for numbers rather than facebook.... i guess at the time i thought it was easier than a number... but now i see there is no point being another one of there 800 or so friends !!
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