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Le(e) Large 30-06-2010 10:57 PM

Work, New girl, Hot as hell, need advice.
 
Ok right, I was speaking with my manager tonight, at my work we are employing like 10 new staff, apparently there are some HB6-8s and more importantly a HB9-10.
With it been work I have a feeling this is going to be very hard, although i've hit on girls at my work successfully before this they are only like 7's and were already attracted to me before i started reading up about being a pua, (yes I have just started so im pretty fresh at this) they were also out of work and very very easy targets.

What I want to be able to do is get this girl to want me by just working with me, and want to come out to party with me. I'm crazily messed in the head thinking about what to do and how to impress.

So if you guys could please give me advice and tips on how to get this girl before she starts work on Sunday, I would definitely take on as much as possible.

thanks

nova 01-07-2010 08:34 AM

Now you have discovered this pua, you need to consider broadening your horizons beyond the front of your nose. Give yourself at least some options beyond your office. So, I'd suggest you start going out and approaching girls you don't know, in bars, in the street, in the supermarket. Start with basic small situational small talk, directions, what time the bar closes, etc. and work from there. There's no one easy answer in all of this, you've just got to apply yourself and take some risks.

Oh and if you want to check out some pua lectures, talks, etc. Try Natural Tim or Tyler Durden's Blueprint.

Sugarspin 01-07-2010 09:21 AM

Nova is right, if you've got the skills to pay the bills you don't need to be fishing in the work pool.
Like most on here, been there done that and had the nonsense and workplace drama that can go with it.
The reason so many people go down the road of work colleagues or friends of friends is because they don't have what you have clearly got or are in the process of acquiring - the ability to create magic when you are out and about amongst strangers. You can explore the rich resources of other social groups that others can't access and have more choice.
Aside from the obvious lack of focus it will bring to your work performance, if you're concentrating your efforts elsewhere you are more likely to pique her interest anyway, as you'll be one of the only guys in there who isn't that bothered by her- hence a challenge!

Summer Junky 01-07-2010 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Le(e) Large (Post 21175)
I'm crazily messed in the head thinking about what to do and how to impress.

No no no, very bad! You're thinking way too much about this and you haven't even met the girl yet?

If, as you say, she is a 9/10, she'll see you coming from a mile off like a double decker bus steering out of control, engine steaming and the lot! I don't know why but for some reason I always get pictures of David Brent from the office when guys talk about lame game in the workplace...

Take Nova's advice and sort your shit out before hitting on girls at work. If you get blown out it could create some very awkward moments for you, depending on how bad the blow out was.

And don't feel the need to impress people, you'll just come across as needy most likely, unless you've got some kind of special ability like walking through walls... It will just make you come across as needy and socially uncomfortable. Just relax around people, ie hot women. Ask them insightful questions about themselves and tell them interesting things about yourself. She may not jump you there and then on the spot, but if you consistently have authentic communication like this with her, she'll be attracted to you I guarantee.

Le(e) Large 01-07-2010 11:48 AM

thanks guys, first sarging session tonight i think, so we will see what happens from there. So if i've got this right, i'm basically not giving her the attention she more than likely wants right?

nova 01-07-2010 12:02 PM

Who knows what this girl might want, but you don't want this to be another girl you focus all your energy on, chasing her and thinking about her. Your energy is better channeled through pushing your boundaries.

legend 01-07-2010 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Le(e) Large (Post 21207)
thanks guys, first sarging session tonight i think, so we will see what happens from there. So if i've got this right, i'm basically not giving her the attention she more than likely wants right?

Yes. Sort your "game" (I dislike that word) out first, outside the work environment. Learn to be the alpha male at work and she will notice you. Just be a friendly guy, build enough rapport, attraction (SOIs), comfort and eventually ask her out. If you have done your homework well, she will say yes and you can take it from there. Good luck!

nova 01-07-2010 12:24 PM

Anyway Le(e)Large. Post up an intro in the Intro section and get rooting through the forum. There's plenty of chatter about everything PUA related and loads of people's field report experiences to mull over.

Shark 01-07-2010 02:11 PM

I agree with thecomments amde above; if she is as hot as you make out then every guy in the office will be drooling over her...if you are concentrating on Gaming outside work and getting confident etc she will start to wonder why you are not attracted to her and she will try harder to qualify herself to you...then it's all sweet Brother :)

tebbs 01-07-2010 09:24 PM

I agree with Shark.... and the discipline is to ignore work things... trust me it will end in tears..

and whats with the spam posts for shirts and nike airs ?


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