The desire to be single and fuck lots of women - do you "grow out of it"?
 

Hey folks, got an interesting question. I'm in a relationship.

I'm having commitment issues in my relationship and part of me would love to go back to being single, and start sleeping with lots of women again, enjoying the variety.

I had a conservative upbringing, and didn't spend much time living the "single life" before I met my girlfriend.

I'm curious to hear from guys who are in a relationship - do you feel this way much?

If yes, how do you deal with it?

If no, did you ever feel this way? Is it something you "grow out of" after being single for long enough? Could it be that I got into a relationship too early?

Don't worry about it. Sounds like just some grass is always greener thinking. Odds are your relationship will end within a couple of years and you'll be back living the other type of life anyway.

What commitment issues are you having? Or is it just this that sometimes you see hot girls and want to hit on them?


Peace,

kowalski

k the eternal optimist

Thanks for getting back to me Kowalski! Really struggling with this - it's a big issue in my life right now :( So any info is very welcome.

I did pickup a lot for a couple of years, slept with a lot of women, it was great fun, if a little frustrating at times. Met this girl, got in a relationship, great girl, definitely a potential keeper, tho not exactly my physical type, but we are well matched personality/values wise, and she's totally crazy about me.

She made it clear she wants further commitment... marriage, children, etc. So in this case I disagree with your statement "odds are your relationship will end..." - I think the only reason it might end is due to my current issues...

You hit the nail on the head about my commitment issue... I see hot girls and I want to put my nail in their head ;) At the moment, it's stopping me from committing further... a part of me can't leave pickup behind, leaving me stuck in this indecision.

Not sure if it's just a natural feeling that all guys have (Coolidge effect) / or if I got in a relationship too soon / or if I'm with the wrong girl sex-wise even if she's amazing in every other way...

Thanks Jaz - good to hear your viewpoint - I definitely wasn't getting bored of it, and not quite at middle age yet :) Was just getting good at pickup and enjoying it a lot.

Do most guys find it gets boring eventually? Is that the sign that you're ready for a relationship?

It doesn't matter if you agree. It's a fact,


Peace,

kowalski

It's wired to us men to want multiple women if you have the perfect woman and you have a decent life then you should be faithful

We started trying for a baby and it hasn't happened, it's been iv r a year now. it's damaging our relationship, my mood lately has dipped loads, we weren't having fun spontaneous sex anymore instead it revolved around fertile window. My sperm count came back bad and now we stopped sex all together. The mood isn't right and now I'm in your shoes I feel like I just want to move on. I won't though I plan on fixing it and working on it but I understand what you are going through.

I'm even more determined to be single and keep fucking different girls now than I ever was.

After it didn't work out with my the mother of my kid I decided not to do what I've seen lots of other people do, and jump into having another kid and settling down with the next available girl. That shit is so lame and stinks of desperation.

Life is short, so I'm just enjoying playing around with multiple girls. Currently banging 2 kinky little bitches. One is my age, 34, and the other is 28. I'm sexting a super hot blonde 19 year old since last night, have talked her to orgasm a few times already. Gunna try hard to nail her, she would be a lot of fun.

Being a wealthy bachelor with lots of young hot ladies in my life is my primary life objective. Not marriage and all that crap.

This is a response from someone that doesn't understand biological temperamental differences.

No. It is a response from someone who understands statistical probability. But thanks for popping by with your sub 90iq. Facts, bro, when someone goes against them they are just wrong. Like you now.


Peace,

kowalski

statistical probablitly? provide evidence of these statistics. If I am sub 90iq you're below 10.