I am worthy

[Kes]

So I was out with the regular Manchester crew last night - POWER Steve, Chris

In Lemars I approach this girl. She's super fine, you know the type.

The interaction is going great, so I decide to up it a notch with some kino. She responds well. Then after about 5 mins, I decide this girl is ready for some moves. You know, maybe a kiss, or at least bounce her to the lounge section so we can get better acquainted.

Then it hits me. I get this wierd feeling. It stops me in my tracks and keeps me rooted to the spot. I start to feel inhibited.

I start thinking that i'm not worthy to have such a fine girl actually like me. I'm having worthiness issues, I can't fucking believe it!

I cut the interaction short, telling her I've got to get back to my friends. She gives me that look that says "are you really telling me to go away?". I smile sheepishly and saunter off.

Damn!

[caveman]

I used to be absolutely shite at chatting up women in general, nowadays i dont feel uncomfortable trying to chat up women in pubs or clubs, they are generally expecting it , so i find that takes the pressure off a bit.

If your are usually confident about it and find your self thinking about what to say etc, it might not be you at all, after all you cant win them all, some women are rude, bitches or difficult.

My own issues are i am shite at talking to women in situations when they are not expecting to be hit on, i think perhaps you are over thinking things.