06-11-2018, 11:35 PM
You could have bumped this from the other one, but alright, here's an actual explanation.
Game is game. Shit is working or it isn't and game is basically learning how to see when that's actually happening and capitalise on it. Jobs dont have anything to do with it.
Having said that the old as dirt way to pick up people in a casual way is invite them to a social setting with other people there. If she likes your she'll go, if she doesnt she wont, but you to a degree lose the volatility of actually asking someone out.
Thing is though people doing first posts of stuff like this is by far the most common thing that pops up here, and these hangups are always because people arent getting laid enough from regular game. So the advice is always the same; forget about this girl and start doing more actual game.
“As to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.” - Emerson