some advice please

[ross_belfast]

my friend who i work with (we are barmen) told me that his girls friend is looking a fuck bud.
friend - "she doesnt want a date or anything just ride her"- yeah thats fair enough im dtf

she was in the other night when i was working and i got her number. my problem is that my text game is shockingly bad. i dont know what to say. i know texting is just meant to get them to agree to meet you, which is the way i try to keep it but i usually text to get them on a date.

i dont know her, we talked for about 5 minutes as i was working and it was really busy. shes hot and i wouldnt mind fucking her.

my question is, how do i go about texting her to hook up for sex without looking like a creep? should i text her for a while to build some level of comfort or go straight for the kill? should i invite her out on a date even though my friend said shes not looking any dates?

[Kyllerbuzcut]

Some kind of deer in the headlights syndrome?
I guess it must be a similar situation as to when Jahova's witnesses actually get invited into someone's house. They'd be like "Um.. uh... I'm sure I memorised something about Jesus, but blow me if I can remember what it was" - lol

OK - for real now-
Say something like:
"So - I didn't get to find out anything about you the other night, and my buddy didn't tell me much either. What's your name, what's your sign and what's your shoe size?
nah - just kidding. I do have a real question though - How did you meet [your buddy's girl]? What do you think of them as a couple?"

You can make the questions up yourself - but make sure there's a reason for her to reply and that should hopefully get the train back on the track.
It is probably like your train got derailed because of the situation and once it's back on the track you can again follow the usual route round the track.

[ross_belfast]

she seems nice, ive only met her a handful of times. I met her on a night out.

im not entirely sure but they seem like a good couple. they have only been going out for a few months.

i know my friend is keen on me getting into a relationship and im wondering if, secretly he thinks once he gets the ball rolling one thing might lead to another.

[Kyllerbuzcut]

You might know the answers to sime of the questions already, and you might not care what the answers will be - the point is tomget her to text something back - anything at all.
Your buddy and her buddy might be just trying to set you 2 guys up. He's tokd you that she likes you, and she'smtold her you like her.
You're both interested but now she's waiting for you to do something about it.
There's a few possibilities of what's really going on - including the one where she just wants a jump from anyone, and if you don't make a move some other random asshoke will say hi in the supermarket and your chance is gone.
She might just really like you and think if she lets it be known she's easy. then you will make a move on her. Either way - whatever the underlying reason, you have to say "something"
Good luck