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15-06-2010, 09:36 PM
Hows it going guys???
I never thought there would be a time in my life when i can not be arsed to hit some pussy but at the moment with everything thats going on (work, College, etc) when i do go out id rather get shit faced and not even approach anyone. If girls say hi to me normally id be straight in there trying to chat and have a laugh but at the moment i would rather turn around and have a shot and a laugh with mates. as most of you know this doesnt sound like me i think the main problem is that ive been on alot of nights out with mates that have come back from uni or birthdays A night out with my mates consists of getting totally hammered and then carry on drinking until you cant stand up. They never even chat to girls, at the beginning i would try and get them to come over and have a chat but as time has passed ive become more like them. i dont feel like i cant go over to a group of girls and say hey i dont have fear of approaching i know that if i wanted to i could clear up the club hahah but i just dont seem to be arsed lately Keep Progressing Jynx 
    
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16-06-2010, 07:32 AM
Haha that's not the cae wanking more than ever
Keep Progressing Jynx
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16-06-2010, 07:38 AM
I think that its more who I'm with
When your with some people its like being with buzz killington from family guy In my head I still want to be social but because people around me don't it seems to want to be social it puts me in a bad mind set Keep Progressing Jynx
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16-06-2010, 02:04 PM
As Jaz says - why is it a problem? You said you know you can do it if you want to, so it's not like you have lost your confidence? Or is it the thought of getting blown out in front of our mates?? If not then just enjoy a few weeks on the beers with the boys and then you'll start to miss Gaming and get back onto it
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18-06-2010, 04:48 PM
I sometimes feel like that. Not motivated to chat to people. My advice is simple, just force yourself to talk to 2 people, even if you're not attracted to them.
These could just be asking a simple question, direction etc. But the point of these are just to get you motivated. I've gone out like this, my mates just force me to go chat to someone, and after that I can be on the ball.
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