Language barrier in loud venues
 

Here is a big issue i noticed in my game. So i am not a native english speaker, but i try my best to sound articulate and clear while gaming. The problem arises when i have to understand what the girls are saying to me. The combination of loud music and the fact that my english is not native-fluent makes it really hard for me to understand the girls and i ask them to repeat their words several times. This just kills my game as long pauses like those break any attraction and/or rapport. I even tried tried to use it as a neg, like "does she always speak so low ?? How do you understand her ?!?!?" but eventually if i cannot hear the girls i cannot game so i really need some help here.




On the plus side i derived these:
-If you want some early kino, you can pretend you didnt hear her and as she leans in to talk to you (assuming you are body rocking and leaning back), you can put you arm around her back or touch her arm, to "listen to her better"
-It apparently is good for isolating, it was a 3-set, and after some time my target says something and i literally dont catch a word, so i am like "what did you say??" as i was still body rocking at that point she came close to me to speak, and her friends ignored us and left
Now i havent tested any of these, it just came up to me in my game, but i dont think they seem as strategies to plan to use, like do them on purpose, but more of like if it happens to not hear the girl use them there situationaly.

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Stop body rocking, it's moronic.

Your whole post is moronic. Your strategising is way too detailed. At that level you are going to end up with thousands of rules that overlap and interact and conflict, that's gonna be confusing and unwieldly and eternally incomplete and leave you asking retarded questions like "why can't I hear what the other person is saying whilst I am moving back away from her?" Dude, stop moving away from her if you want to hear what she is saying.


Peace,

kowalski

No i have this problem even i am next to people, in loud environments if people talk fast i dont get shit, like i have to get people to slow down somehow and talk louder (for some reason british people speak really silently, never seen this elsewhere :P ).

Isnt body rocking necessary in the beginning ?

Stop the body rocking. It is not necessary. I've had sex with girls and I've never body rocked... so have millions of other humans. Stop anything that is micro management. It is counterproductive. You aren't really having a chat with anyone if you are making sure to body rock at timed intervals or regulating yourself that you are never facing the other person face on etc etc. That isn't life. Choose life.

You can say it isn't because of that but really if you are moving away from someone you can't hear very well, that is not going to help. I'm not saying anything controversial, this is just basic physics.

Brits are generally known for being loud. I live in a European tourist city and if people are being told to "keep it down" it's usually Brits.

If I'm talking to Spaniards and I don't quite get what they said I just rock one of the generic non-committal sound and facial expression combos I have in my repertoire then chat about something I want to say.


Peace,

kowalski