How to project a more sexual vibe?

[Casanova]

This is something i am having trouble with atm convincing a woman to come back with me from a club. I pulled a woman on the dance floor and was grinding with her and it was getting hot and heavy and we were making out. I was whispering in her ear things like i know you want me and you dont wanna know what im going to do to you. Her objection from coming back with me was that she didnt want to leave her friends. I think this woman was abit of a cock tease tbh. do you guys start talking about sex in the beginning of convos with women because i usually start talking about it when we are making out and i know its on. And how do you state intentions if you are looking for a sexy time with a woman from a club without sounding sleazy?

Thanks

[caveman]

when its coming towards closing time at the club or its got to the point where i have nearly spent up, id just ask her if she wants to come back to my place.

As for being worried about coming across as sleazy? well dont worry about that, if you made a conversation "sexual" and shes not at all bothered by that then you should be able to ask her with some confidence.

[Casanova]

Thats what i usually do ask them to come back but sometimes its not enough! can any1 enlighten me?

[Black_Lightning]

Personally I think from what i have read, never kiss a girl on the dancefloor if her friends are around (except if she initiates it ofcourse) because it causes her ASD to react.

No girl wants to look like a slut infront of her friends so i do try my best to take her to the side and get all sexual there.

you can get her to all hot up and then use a bit of push and pull
like lean in smell her hair tell her "oh my god the things i would do to you, run your hands through her face, lean in for the kiss then say oh my god stop it what are you doing to me, look at what tthat girl is wearing.. "

things like that to tease her always works best for me, at the end of the night she Wants to go back to yours just make it fluid so she thinks its the natural thing to do and manage her statebreakers with even more comfort building

MM tells us that never go into S1 (arousal) till your ready to take it all the way. So unless your planning a quickie in the toilets dont go ALL the way sexual till your back home with her

So its up to your on style really, you coudl either go somewat sexual and tease (push and pull) to state your intent but at the same time build enough comfort (think long term gf of the night ) or go all sexual if youve got the looks and confidence to do it


personally im not exactly denzel washington so i always try and go for the first method, its harder to perfect but safer and more effective if done right

[Black_Lightning]

Originally Posted by kowalski

Fuck what MM says. I've broken every rule in that book, and all the other books on PU, and still got the girl.

I don't know why you think you are doing anything wrong. Sometimes girls are just going home with their friends and that is that. People are not the same what works for one girl will not work for every girl. They're not Pokemon or veneral diseases, you can't catch them all.


Peace,

kowalski

Haha well maybe they arent pokemon but you have to admit Kowalski that some routines work on a variety of women, which is why we all learn these routines lol

Maybe your a guru but these tips are aimed to us newbies who need to start with something solid first

[nova]

Originally Posted by kowalski

I don't know why you think you are doing anything wrong. Sometimes girls are just going home with their friends and that is that.

Agreed.

@ Casanova, sounds like you were projecting an excellent level of sexuality. Girls have their own agenda too, it's not all about what YOU do. Plus, forget about sleaze, the sleazy guy is the one who stands on the corner of the dancefloor drolling over the girls and not acting. Here it sounds like you were the smooth guy.

@ Black Lightning, have you ever considered you don't need the looks to go all sexual?

[Summer Junky]

You can say a lot just by looking at a girl. In fact the less talking you do the better.

[Black_Lightning]

@nova

Good point mate, i agree with you there

[Casanova]

Good advice everyone i know i cant expect it to work on every woman! that would just be unfair to everyone else lol

something i am curious about is should you start talking sexually before you are kissing etc or should you wait until its getting hot and heavy and she is in the mood?

[Black_Lightning]

well again I personally think it depends on the situation, if shes given you 2 or more IOIs then you might as well go for it

it all depends on whether you feel she is ready, does she hold eye contact
if you squeeze her hand does she squeeze back

if you have IOIs then go for the kiss, but i would save the sexual talk till she is in a place where she can hear you perfectly

theres nothing like shouting dirty talk down her ear while music blaring, what happens if the beat suddenly stops and you say shit that the whole club hears lool