She does not love me anymore
 

Hi everybody

I post on this forum because I need help with my ex.

I am a 16 year old high school student.


4 months ago I was dropped by my girlfriend after going out with her for 2 months during the holidays. We unfortunately only saw one week because we left each other on our side on vacation.

She just told me that she had no feelings for me anymore.

I think I was too "duck" with her. (Too much I love you etc ...) which has (I suppose) killed her attraction that she had for me at the beginning.

Today, I heard that according to one of her friends she did not love me anymore and she did not really want to go out with me again.

The current goes well between us. Little smiles on his part and looks etc ...
However I feel her disinterest even if some of my friends told me that they felt like she liked me.

We are in two different classes and we see each other very little.

I invited her to the cinema and several releases but she always finds an excuse without counterproposal. She only once agreed to come to my house with a friend.

The best thing to do would surely be to move on but I am very motivated to try to seduce her.


Thank you very much (sorry if my english is not good, I'm french)

If you wanna seduce somebody who's not that much into you, you should try to seduce someone else. It will make the first one want you way more.

Thank you very much. Do you still have some tips to get this girl back?

Man, it's hard to remember what it's like to be 16.

I started seeing this one girl Rebecca Hill when I was maybe 15. She was real pretty, still is, and we'd had an eye on each other for a while. I was very proud to be with her. After a week or two I went on holiday and pulled another girl there. I told my friends and one of them used that to let me out and pop himself in my place. I was upset but then they were together for a long time and I thought it was good for them both.

That's the only story I can recall that even comes near to what you are talking about.

Where is this going... I dunno, just trying to relate a bit before telling you that none of this is gonna matter in a few days time.

The advice to go hit on another girl is a Trojan horse. When we say - go hit on another girl and the one you want will wake up to how awesome you are - what we don't normally add is - yeah, she probably will buy you won't care because you'll have moved on. There is no going back and even if there was a rational person wouldn't ever do it.

Also, go read Jaz's thread on getting over an ex.


Peace,

kowalski

There's the rub

You're very young. I know you feel all grown up, but you've got a long way to go and a lot of experiences to go through.

I also know that you feel like this girl is really special, and I know she is, to you, but again it's unlikley the girl you will be with in 10 years is going to be her.

Here's the valuable thread Kowalski is talking about..

http://www.puaforums.co.uk/seduction...r-your-ex.html

try to remember what your behavior/life was like when you courted her... and ask yourself what changed since then. try to spark her curiosity with new cool things going on in your life. be misterious!

I know it's hard but go after different girls, don't get obsessed with one. Plus like another poster said it may make the girl who you are after regain that attraction.

Have fun, flirt and have options, don't get needy.