Recurring sticking point... Advice needed

[Ambitious]

Hey guys,

So I wanted to run a repeating problem by y'all to see if you can see what I'm doing wrong. It goes like this...

*Met girl and ask to go out
*Texting each other lots and first date arranged.
*Picked girl up in new car, washed, cleaned inside and out, dressed nicely, cologne which suits me etc etc.


*perfect gentleman, holding hands, chatting away, opening doors, picked up the bill - no issues.
*walk to her door from the car, she opens front door spins around with couple kisses on lips - end of evening.

*minutes later - text saying "I had a really nice night" then couple texts later mentioned possibly seeing her again reply "yeh we should go to the cinema next week".
*Date 2 arranged for 8 days later... she reckons she had plans that weekend but it appears she stayed home hence the time gap, fake or just plans cancelled I dont know.
*The usual bombardment of texts from her now slows, takes 5hrs to reply to a "hey, how's your day going".

Playfully challenged the gap and got "i don't have my phone 24/7 so sometimes takes time to reply etc etc" challenged playfully losing interested replies "no of course I'm not just a bit busy, lets take it slow see what happens, possibly go out a few more times as friends before we decide on anything".

(Dont know what bought all that on she seemed into me like 2 days ago on the first date!)

Everything seemed cool and she doesnt text for 2 days, I give her the space to not come accross as needy but not texting her and theres no interaction, until I give up and ask her how her week is going (the day before 2nd date).

The text messages that come through have a different tone, "hey trouble" is the greeting and then I notice all of the previous messages had x's and 's the new ones dont.

Asked "we still going out tomorrow" and she comes back with "If you want" she then declined me picking her up, declined food because "ive eaten too much junk food this week"... complete lack of interest so I said "well you dont seem too fussed about it, do you want to go out or are you just being polite about it" and then comes "thought we had this conversation before, do you want to go out or not?"

(I now go into confused mode in my head, what the hell is this all about)

Next night after we arranged to go out, I thought sod it I need to get some brownie points,

Meet her at the cinema area and she comes up to me on the phone, says hi and continues the convo on the phone, I'm standing there like a tool before saying, "hey" and hinting HANG THE FCUK UP which she didnt seem too bothered to do, making comment about shes just seen her friends ex and needed to tell her! (like that's THAT important)

Walked her to my car, blagged a story about being a donut texts getting misunderstood and then gave her a rose as a gesture... she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek, she did seem suprised in a good way but still not what I was expecting. Rose stayed in the car and we went in, managed the hand on her back but she was busy texting whilst walking so thought "what the hells going on, is she aware how rude this looks).

Film was rubbish so halfway through I said "I'm bored can we have a cuddle" she laughs and says NO quite bluntly. After the film I walk out and shes chatting away happily how she loved the film etc etc (kinda like the first date) I offer to walk her to her car and she gives me a hug and kiss on the cheek, "thanks for a nice night I'll text you later" - she stopped off on the way for the rose.

Needless to say I already thought 'well i doubt ill be seeing her again and thats what the text will say but lets see'

2 days later no texts, to be honest no suprise but I really was expecting a "your sweet, LJBF" text like what's happened before, but this time nothing, again I think "How Fcuking rude".

Honestly, I am bothered by it... I did really like her but I think played it cool until a bit of chode came through with the rose,I dont think that ruined it though something went wrong and I cant see where. But this is almost identical to a previous girl about 3 weeks ago where she had a "lovely first date" then switched and was completely different on the day 2...

Any ideas?

Ambitious

[Ambitious]

In addition all I can think of is that maybe the first "misunderstanding" about her not being interested annoyed her, the 2nd time - which was more me saying that she seems different and not exactly bothered if we went out or not - suddenly thats sparked another annoyance in her and maybe shes thought 'well this isnt going anywhere with him" - but funnily enough the x's and 's returned after that for a day before the 2nd date!

Strange! lol

EDIT - Should I challenge her on her awful manners or just let it go and erase the number? LOL