Need advice - text convo gone cold
 

Hi

Would appreciate some advice on how to get around this issue that I have. So I met a girl in a queue waiting for a minicab last week, we really hit it off and I got her number before we went our separate ways. I texted her the following afternoon but didnt get a response for 24 hours.

As part of her message she said "ironically you know my sister?!". I told her I've met her sister before and know a few of the other girls that they hang around with. We exchanged a couple more messages and then I finished my text with "I'm intrigued to know your source is ha! They couldn't of said anything bad about me otherwise we wouldn't be messaging :P". Since then it's been 4 days of radio silence.....

I dont know any of her friends or sister well enough for them to have bad impressions of me, i literally know their names and faces. My instinct is telling me that she's just quite guarded and I maybe come on a bit much. Any advice on how to pick things up? Like I said it's been a while since we spoke and I'm keen not to let it go completely cold.

Thanks in advance.

"Hey, I don't want to bug you but I'd like to take you out for a cocktail or two and see if we get on as well I think we would. It's cool I know your sister she's a nice girl I hope she's doing well. Anyhow no worries if you don't want to but if you'd like to hang out it'd be my pleasure."

Just freestyling. Maybe go for the honourable man. Not that you're not. But express it?